Here! Here! I agree!! I've found that the ones who brag the most have the least to brag about! I've heard "I'll lick you all night" only to find out they have a VERY short night! Their so-called prowess in the bedroom is not half as good as I can do myself.

It's very true that the quiet ones, ie... the ones who don't brag a great deal are the most confident. They don't NEED to brag!

Jess

So, how's the weather in Swindon?  Quite amazing for the end of August in Boston, it'sbeen absolutely lovely here.  Perhaps I could show you around, should you ever come visit.

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~Renny

It's got nothing to do with you not turning them on..... there are two kinds of guys out there; there are those who are the quiet and passionate type and there are those who are the boastful kind who just want a quick leg-over.....trouble is which ones did you pick???

Well... men can be persuasive sometimes. If there were as good in bed as they were with words... all would be fine. LMAO

LOL You hit the nail on the head, so to speak!  When men brag about their horse-size dick, it sends a red zone telling me that 1) they are full of shit, or 2) they need to talk big to get laid.  I get rude responses when I screen, and find some old fart who wants to get laid and I specifically say "Prefer young."  Men have some egos bigger than their dick.  ;)  The best guy I ever met here was young, athlecic and wow, was he endowed!  Did not brag about it.  

Not, I guess I've been lucky in that dept on this site. I've found some really great lovers. But I have a few rules which may weed out the liars. I dont cyber, phone, or cam 2 cam; real time only. I will talk about what I like sexually with someone, but that's as far as I go. I have been disappointed by big talkers in the past. So if a guy wants it,  I get to know him a little and have found a few wonderful lovers on this site. Keep them wanting more, and they usually deliver. 

I've met two out of the few men that i would even think about doing again.  The rest were a waste of my precious time.  Here, Here!  I agree totally.  It becomes very disappointing, put your money where you mouth is guys.  Step up and act like a lover would not a fucker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xoxo KW

     Don't get down about it.

     My mood has been in the dumps for almost a week now, looking for my own personal "needle-in-a-haystack".  As a man, I can tell you that alot of men are only interested in two things, an one of then is NOT satisfying you. Thankfully, my own self-depricating personality prevents me from bragging about the size of my...Uhhh...Geez, where is that thing?...Oh, there it is!

     Anyway, part of this is you women's fault. I f you so many of you didn't fake orgasms, alot of us men would suddenly get rather humble!

MisterJax, what a profound comment that is.  I had never thought about it before but it deserves some thinking by a lot of women.  If we didn't fake an orgasm just to make him feel good, maybe he'd try harder to make sure we had one.

I'll ponder that and maybe put some words together on my blurb.

I've never faked an orgasm and in fact, it never occured to me that I should! lmao

I think maybe the man has something there. Ladies, think of it like this... if you made meatloaf the same way for years and your man said he liked it and then years later you overhear him telling someone he didn't really like it after all... how would you feel? I'd be pissed! That fucker should have said something years before! It would then be HIS fault that he ate something for years that he didn't like.

So... put your big girl panties on and get honest with yourselves AND with your man. Tell him what you like and don't like and resist the urge to "act" like it's great when it's not.