Okay friend, this isn't the sort of response you're waiting to see, but I'll help you here.

     Remember back when, when you were younger, hunting for that certain someone in a bar or club?   You'd see these women who seem to eye you a little more than what could be expected?  Of course you'd get up off that barstool and go introduce yourself, right?  Well, same shit here.

     Try this little method. When you get those "views" on your blog/profile, see if there's any ladies out there who seem to be checking you out more than usual, then E-mail them and strike up the conversation.  Nothing against them, it's only that most women, even on the website, don't want to come across as too easy or over-eager,  or forward.

     By the way, you're not the only one. I'm writing about this very subject in my own blog on Sunday. Happy hunting!!!