I read with interest the comments my previous blog attracted (thanks to all).  The issue was raised about faking orgasm and  how somehow women were responsible for unfulfilling encounters as their partner may have experienced a woman faking it thereby encouraging him that Casanova had a rival.  Come off it please.  This is tantamount to accepting that sex is merely a set of instructions - if I press this button this reaction will happen cos it has before.  We all react differently to stimuli - different turn ons, erogenous zones, likes, dislikes - the list is endless.  Yes we take previous experiences with us in every aspect of life but each partner should be treated as a new journey with discoveries to be made on the way - not just the tried and tested.  Yes I agree in a perfect world we would all be honest and open but omg if no woman ever faked an orgasm The Samaritans wouldn't be able to handle the calls.  The only answer is as some have observed - consideration and a desire to make someone else happy.