Forbidden......depends on whom you are speaking to.  Birds do it.....bees do it.....we all need to do it.  If you say you don't you are lieing.  Guilty.....yes.  Curious.....yes.  Eager.....most definately yes.  I am interested in this "donut coffee" thing you speak about......wanna exchange email addresses and further delve into this subject ?  = )

meh... so much is put into 'cheating, affairs' and so forth.

Alls I can say is... if it works for you?  why not?  Your partner should know who you're coming home to.  In the end... is'nt that what should count the most?

Obviously those who complain about it, are ones who are quite positive that they're missing out on something in their partnership, and those who whine about it, are just not giving enough.  The complaining about it is their own guilt showing through.

jmo...