CuriousVanessa
Female, 44   United States
Female
Boston
Massachusetts, USA
3,251 kms from you
44
Divorced
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My curiosity leads me to the most interesting places...
BBW seeking men
... including this website!

PLEASE NOTE: I am not currently looking for any new connections! I appreciate your interest, but I'm not going to be answering anyone until life calms down a bit for me. I come here to mainly keep in touch with my friends these days.

I've decided to update my ad based on some of the responses I've received.

I'm 5'6" and curvy. I am a brown-eyed brunette who is half Japanese and a mixture of other backgrounds (mostly Scottish). I am attracted to men who are much taller and bigger than I am because of my sexual preferences.

Please pay attention to the following if you really want a response from me:

1. I'm not looking for a serious relationship. (I'd like to think I'm open to that possibility, but I was married for a long time and still having fun now.)
2. I'm not interested in married/attached men. I prefer getting together with someone on a regular basis and that is usually not an option with someone who is cheating. If you have an open relationship, that's another matter altogether. (And if she's bi, then maybe we all can have fun together.)
3. I'm looking for in-person activities so please live closeby or visit the Boston area on a regular basis.
4. I have no interest in chatting, talking on the phone or viewing a web cam unless it's to facilitate meeting in person.
5. I currently date an average of three men.
6. If we haven't had sex, then you won't be getting the password to my pics.
7. I prefer men who are within 10 years (older and younger) of my age.
8. I don't accept friend requests unless we've actually communicated with one another.

I've had the good fortune to meet some wonderful people (online and in person) from SA. I tend to ask a lot of questions but I don't mind answering them either! I continue to look for people to share my adventures. If you think we're looking for the same things, please send me an email. Thank you!
My curiosity leads me to the most interesting places...
Women seeking men
... including this website!

I've decided to update my ad based on some of the responses I've received.

PLEASE NOTE: I am not currently looking for any new connections! I appreciate your interest, but I'm not going to be answering anyone until life calms down a bit for me. I come here to mainly keep in touch with my friends these days.

I'm 5'6" and curvy. I am a brown-eyed brunette who is half Japanese and a mixture of other backgrounds (mostly Scottish). I am attracted to men who are much taller and bigger than I am because of my sexual preferences.

Please pay attention to the following if you really want a response from me:

1. I'm not looking for a serious relationship. (I'd like to think I'm open to that possibility, but I was married for a long time and still having fun now.)
2. I'm not interested in married/attached men. I prefer getting together with someone on a regular basis and that is usually not an option with someone who is cheating. If you have an open relationship, that's another matter altogether. (And if she's bi, then maybe we all can have fun together.)
3. I'm looking for in-person activities so please live closeby or visit the Boston area on a regular basis.
4. I have no interest in chatting, talking on the phone or viewing a web cam unless it's to facilitate meeting in person.
5. I currently date an average of three men.
6. If we haven't had sex, then you won't be getting the password to my pics.
7. I prefer men who are within 10 years (older and younger) of my age.
8. I don't accept friend requests unless we've actually communicated with one another.

I've had the good fortune to meet some wonderful people (online and in person) from SA. I tend to ask a lot of questions but I don't mind answering them either! I continue to look for people to share my adventures. If you think we're looking for the same things, please send me an email. Thank you!
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Yes, I really am curious most of the time...
I started this blog with the intention to pose questions and hopefully get some answers. I've also ranted a bit and tried to share my perspectives about things. These days, I'm mostly just experimenting. It's always good to satisfy one's curiosity, don't you think?
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Thank you! Belated Greetings and Whatnot
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Well...  It's been ~6 weeks since I've been on SA.  Things are still chaotic, but I wanted to thank those of you who sent me emails and left comments for me.  I hope everyone had a great Halloween and Thanksgiving!

I probably won't have much time to be online in the next couple of months, but I am planning on going to the Chicago M&G in April so I'll see quite a few of my friends there (yay!) and have a chance to relax and have fun.  I also have more plans for traveling next year, so I'm looking forward to it even though it seems so far away.  *sigh*

Pssy, EQ and MsB:  Is it APRIL yet?!  Geesh!

*hugs*


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Taking a Break
Monday, October 17, 2011
Wow, it's been awhile since I posted anything to my blog...  Life has been and continues to be exceptionally busy, so I'm going to take a break from SA for a bit.  I don't have any time to pursue what I call my "extracurricular activities" these days but I'm sure I'll be *ready* when things finally calm down a bit.
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Speed Up or Slow Down?
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
I can't tell if life is telling me to speed up or slow down these days...  My hip is finally feeling much better so I'm back in the gym.  I'm still not up to doing my full workout, but I'm getting there.  Work is absolutely insane with significant deadlines over the next month or so.  But I love my job and I enjoy being challenged and learning new stuff.  Outside of work is even crazier, but I won't get into that here.  The past few weeks have been so hectic that in some ways, I'm surprised to be coping as well as I am now.   

When I was younger, everything seemed to exist in absolutes:  right or wrong, black or white, good or bad... you get the idea.  Now that I'm older (with a body that apparently isn't hesitating to remind me about this these days *grin*), it's not so easy to perceive things this way.  But I don't really like ambiguity either!  So I'm incredibly busy but not really stressed out, I'm feeling better physically but still needing to take it easy...  I have a hunch that there's some profound life lesson in here somewhere, but I just haven't actually gotten it yet.

I'm planning to go away over Labor Day weekend and I can't wait!  I'll be ready to take a break from my usual day-to-day activities and just have fun.  Is it September yet?!


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Sports Injury?
Friday, August 5, 2011
My right hip has been hurting and the pain kept getting worse so I finally went to see a doctor this afternoon.  I have a high tolerance for pain which at times isn't a good thing so when I called my doctor's office earlier today, they scheduled an appointment right away.  I've been working out four mornings a week before going to work since May.  I was tired of having health problems from being out-of-shape and I wanted to feel strong and capable in my own body, if that makes any sense.  I also wanted to actually accomplish some things from a physical standpoint.  (Can you imagine the possibilities for my seemingly never-ending to do list when I'm actually in shape?!  *grin*)

You should've seen the surprise on the doctor's face when I burst out laughing after she told me that I had strained some ligaments and muscles from over-exercising.  Considering all my "extra-curricular" activities, it never occurred to me that I could be injured from exercising!  Years ago, when I was a long-distance runner, I had the gamut of sprained ankles, shin splints, pulled muscles, blisters, etc.  When I first started working out regularly in May, I was sore for a month and other than pulling a muscle once, I haven't had any problems.

If you know me well, then you know what kinds of "shenanigans" I can get up to on a regular basis.  But I've never experienced the discomfort and frustration that I'm having now with my f-ing hip.  I guess I should be grateful that I didn't sustain any injuries doing that other stuff in the past.  But I thought the irony today in the doctor's office was amusing.  Now that I'm supposed to take it easy at the gym, I'll have to figure out other ways of exercising...  I'm laughing...
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Online Protocol... Catch 22
Thursday, July 14, 2011
So I received the following email the other day from a dude who lives in my state:

We should definitely do this;you look really hot!!I am a good lookin 38 year  old male and will give you my number and a pic if you wanna meet up?

Well...  I check him out and he says he's 36 on his profile which doesn't jive with his email and he's only 5'7" which is just too damn short for me.  (Sorry, I have nothing against individuals who are shorter than I am, but I just don't particularly enjoy fucking them unless they're my gender.)  So I reply:

Thank you for your email but I'm not interested.  I wish you luck in finding people on SA.

Then I receive this reply from him with the subject line:
yea ok good luck for you!!

Your gettin old anyway,No need to play the fool though!!

When I try to respond, I discover that I've been blacklisted by him.  I hear so often that men get upset that women don't even bother to answer an email.  I admittedly don't respond to all the email I receive, but I try to mitigate that by explaining why in my ad.  I try to be polite and the few times I've received articulate email from men who know the difference between "your" and "you're", they always respond with class and tact when I tell them I'm not interested.

But now I'm curious:  Would you rather not get a response at all if the person isn't interested?  
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๑✿๑✿๑HAPPY HALLOWEEN;)
Added: Sunday, October 30, 2011 11:16pm
Added: Saturday, October 29, 2011 5:01pm
just a tender kiss..


Added: Tuesday, October 18, 2011 2:40pm
Big ~ huggles ~

-naughts xox


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Was there a photo attached to your second comment? It was missing. Perhaps you were sending a yummy birthday cake?


 
Added: Sunday, July 31, 2011 8:44am
Sweet friend, thank you. All birthday wishes are welcome whether early or late. And I've been celebrating since Thursday. Muah!
Added: Sunday, July 31, 2011 8:41am
I SAID that you CAN have sex..organize a fuckfest and an orgy in your room..LOL

Added: Friday, July 29, 2011 5:57pm
 Miss you !

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Added: Wednesday, July 20, 2011 10:33pm
Is it September yet????
Added: Monday, July 11, 2011 12:17pm


Hope your 4th is filled with all your favorite things!!
Added: Sunday, July 3, 2011 8:07pm
Thank you so much for the birthday wishes.. 
Added: Tuesday, June 21, 2011 5:38pm
P.S. The Hitachi is packed *wicked grin*.....
Added: Wednesday, June 15, 2011 5:21pm
Happy Hump Day!!  I just finished laundry and have my packing almost done!  Work tomorrow then it's FRIDAY!!!! WOOOOHOOOO!!!
Added: Wednesday, June 15, 2011 5:20pm
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