Does married mean you have resigned yourself to a deadly game of boredom?  I say HELL NO. 

Earlier in the chat room this evening there was a discussion about being romantic.   I was discussing some of the differences between being romantic and being erotic.  It was pointed out that I was married and then it was assumed that married meant you weren't romantic.

Well, Im here to tell you a person can both be romantic and erotic while being married.  Sometimes its actually easier to be both romantic and erotic while being married.  After all when you are married to someone you know their buttons...you know what makes them sweat...you are comfortable to push the envelope.

For instance....strolling along the lake in the moonlight, holding hands, talking about everything, laughing, stealing a kiss now and then, feeling the sand under your feet, finding an out of the way spot  to spread out your blanket.....lying in each others arms, tenderly and slowly kissing your way across his body.....eventually making love under the moonlight with the sound of the water lapping at the shore......................THATS ROMANTIC!

Leaving a naughty note in his briefcase telling how you want him naked on the table.......sending him a picture of yourself naked.......and calling him during his meeting to tell him how wet and horny you are and that you cant wait for him to come home and fuck you..........THATS EROTIC!!

Im just saying there is a difference and being married does not mean you forget how....

...... it means you find ways to keep it alive:)

So here I am sitting in my livingroom pondering  going out side to shovel the first layer of snow.  We are expected to get between 14-18 inches..possibly more.  Less than an hour south of us is calling for 2 feet!! 

I love playing in the snow, riding sleds down Newport hill is amazing and I scream just like a kid:)  I love a good snowball fight too....Im very competitive.  Playing outside until your cold and wet, not wanting to come in.  Eventually realizing you cant feel your fingers...needing to thaw out; you come inside and have some hot chocolate and get into warm clothes.

Even better than all of that though is sledding in a quiet place only a few people know about it.  Riding tandem with a sexy man underneath you....holding on like you are kinda scared but really just wanting to touch him.  Having a snowball fight that brings you crashing into the soft white snow...him on top of you....kissing you passionately, warming your body like a heatwave.  Eventually finding your way home to a warm fireplace, a nice wine, and fuzzy blankets on the floor where you lose track of time in each other.

Bring on the snow Jack Frost!!