Ok you asked for it so here it is....The details for Shenanigans Part 2 East Coast Style! I would like to take the opportunity to invite all my sexy curvy sisters and their amazing admirers to a meet and greet in Springfield, Mass in August.

Dates: Friday August 13th - 15th, 2010
Place: InnPlace Springfield
  711 Dwight Street
  Springfield, Mass. 01104

  (413)-781-0900 or at www.innplacespringfield.com

I would recommend booking your rooms early as The Basketball Hall of Fame is inducting Scottie Pippen and Karl Malone that Friday night and the town is going to be hopping! Im leaving everything open as far as plans goes but am thinking that hitting the clubs Saturday night sounds like a blast. Just a little FYI....
The Hall of Fame is about 1.5 miles from the hotel, 6 Flags New England and its water park are with in 10 miles and Yankee Candle Factory Store is with in a half hour drive. Room rates go from $81.00 to 100.00 a night and smoking rooms are available for those that would like that as well. Theres a lounge and full restaurant on the 12th floor of the hotel. This party is open to everyone who would like to attend but everyone will be responsible for thier own hotel rooms and transportation. If you need any other info come find me in the Lovin Large Chat Room. Im very much looking forward to seeing some old friends and some new ones too!!! Come on up and join us!!

I lost my Aunt this weekend, she was my best friend, confidant and we were extremely close for the last fifteen years. Thru ups and downs, good times and bad I always knew she was there for me and I for her. She had a new husband who I barely knew and step children from her previous marriage who saw her maybe once a year and spoke to her maybe once a month. She passed quietly and peacefully Saturday morning, we were there holding her hand as she went. As soon as her last breath was expelled I got an eye opening lesson in humanity. Her "daughter" not only took over the arrangements for her funeral she excluded me completely. She then took the opportunity to exclude me from the obituary as well. I, instead of Amy, her niece she was extremely close to, became "several nieces and nephews". Im devestated at the depths people will go to not only garner attention from folks they will never see again but to just be spiteful and lash out at me because she had guilt over never giving my aunt the time of day unless there was something to be gained from it. So today I learned that I need to live each day  no longer beholden to an antiquated and overly romantic idea of what I thought I had for family but rather for whats good for me. I know that sounds selfish to some people but 15 years of being an emotional hostage and at the beck and call of someone would make even the most altruistic soul selfish. Now im looking at the road in front of me and its full of possibilities, but they come at a huge price, mostly my comfort zone but this is just the push I need to take my life in a different and definetly more enlightened direction. I intend to do the things I set out to do and I wont let anyone stop me mostly I wont let me stop me. I found out how we live is all thats left when the ventilators turned off and we go out with a sigh.

I recently read a blog on here written by a phillipino lady boy who went on and on about how fat is unsightly and no one wants to be with a partner who doesnt take care of their bodies. Needless to say my initial reaction was something im not going to post here lol but then I got to thinking about what is sexy. I think its as different as snowflakes, everyone has a very particular idea about what sexy means to them. Yes we have the generalized images of what sexy should be on tv and advertisements everywhere but at least for me sexy is something completely different. I guess initial attraction is important but in the end its the emotional connection that deepens the physical. That particular blog really struck a nerve with me seeing as I am very much a BBW and yes I think im beautiful. To read that made me say who are you to judge? I dont go on and on about anyone elses choices although im sure I could...For so many years my beautiful curvy sisters have been ignored, invisible, taunted and thrown back handed compliments and its all BULLSHIT. So to all you beautiful full figured women out there start each day not asking ...What is sexy? rather leave that question mark at the door and tell the world and especially yourselves you are What is sexy!!! Much love to all of you, especially Livestrong68 for being the kind of man who is confident enough to love what he loves and knows just exactly how to make me feel sexy when I cant see it for myself.

Hello everyone.... this is just a pure unadulterated rant with nothing to do about sexyads, sex or shenanigans. I work in a very small company with a couple of guys who, for the most part are pretty good guys untill they get their periods, then all hell breaks loose....One guy, we shall call him bitch #1, decided to jump off our insurance plan because hes pissed that we wont subsidize his wife going to the psychiatrist twice a week so she can get a psych disability claim thru SSI. The new insurance has a $2500 deductible for the year once thats met everything is covered, hes upset that he has to pay for that and pay a portion of his insurance premium...bear in mind this is all standard practice. A little history on his wife...untill three years ago they werent married, she was bilking the welfare system with both housing and a WIC ticket, I should mention her son is now in his late twenties and has been on his own since he was sixteen...Shes worked a total of less than one fiscal quarter in a year her whole adult life and was subsequently fired due to a DWI. Shes a savy one, at 53 she managed to bilk the state out of a breast reduction because she was able to keep a paper trail not because her job was affected by her back problems. In fact it seems her main career in life has been to work the system so that she doesnt have to work. I get so damn disgusted by people like this, I work two jobs and cant catch a break on my best damn day. I see people every day genuinely disabled who would give anything to actually be ABLE to get up and go to work and then theres this piece of shit.... the feeling of entitlement that just being on this planet should secure her a guaranteed check every month, housing and medical care the rest of us can only dream of having even if we paid for it...My employee informed me today that since we wont pay 100% of his medical insurance and hers ...to the tune of over $1500 a month that not only will he not be on the medical insurance which could affect our standing with the health insurance company hes also considering quitting his job so they wont have to pay more than $35 a month for their apartment and then they could get an unemployment check and free medical. Man talk about not having any pride in yourself what so ever. Now to all the people who are on disability with genuine problems please understand this is NOT aimed at you, this is aimed at the fucking scumbags out there who are working the system to get everything for nothing and have it paid for by people like me who struggle every damn day. Ok rants over now.... Take care everyone, Pssy

I have been here at Sexy Ads for well over two years and although I am not a VIP member,this site has provided me with countless hours of laughs, tears and every emotion inbetween. I have met friends and the love of my life here. Ask yourself this...can you put a price tag on all the fun we have here at NO COST? Maureen and Jayce have created a warm welcoming space for all of us to be ourselves or someone else depending on our moods and motivations....So I say the next time you sign in and arent met with scads of popups, spammers and all other kinds of foolishness that you remember that its free to get to most all the areas of this site and if people are truly interested in getting to know you they will go further than just look at your profile! With the new rules in place I would say its up to you to make your profile as interesting as it can possibly be to get that person who might just be the person you fall completely in love or lust to contact you! Be well and always remember to find something to laugh about every day...Pssy