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Swanton
Ohio, USA 3,112 kms from you 57
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Hiya ! Just me with a discription of just how great I am !!! lol
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Hi there ! Glad you've taken the time to check out my profile . I'm hoping to find a play partner or a lady who wishes to learn how to become a submissive . I'm a wonderfully experianced teacher in the BDSM field and an expert at spanking naughty lil girls
Thanx for reading my ad and I hope to hear from some of you in the near future ! bigfella44 from Toledo, Ohio P.S. Thanks to a wonderful young lady I've been in sessions with, I've now learned AB/DL and how enjoyable diapering a BabyGirl and sharing huggs with her can be . I never thought being a BigDaddy would be so good . Remember that an ad ....
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Always wanting to be considered a "good neighbor" is what one should consider when typing things here on a blog. A short time ago it was'nt all that good but things can change . I've now made some lovely new friends who take me as I am and have became my new friends ! So I'll kep writing on and talk about the things I know for sure, BDSM, being lonely sexually, and being helpful to others with timely advice on all matters pertaining to safe and sane bondage ! Give my a yell sometime for I'll talk with anyone who wants to have a friend !!!
bigfella44 from Toledo, Ohio
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BDSM and Bondage 101 Views of a Gentleman Dominant
Saturday, April 2, 2011
Evening and welcome . A few of you know me but most of you don't . I've had a keen interest in being Dominant since the age of 14 . I've also studied most every aspect of it for over 35 years . Four years ago, I decided to start training Newbies and curious women in the ART of becoming submissive . Since that time, I've had the honor of training seven young women into each aspect of being submissive onto a Dom . The question was asked of my a few days ago, " Is it nessary to provide training to a Newbie or a woman curious about what BDSM and Bondage is all about" ? A very good question indeed ! This question was asked of me by a wonderful young lady who I'll be training within two weeks . This was my reply to her .
My dear Becca, I believe it is nessary and even a very helpful tool in learning the ways without feeling either silly about asking nor being worried about your safty knowing your being trained by a "Gentleman Dominant" . There are standards that must be used to ensure a safe, Sane, and Consensual experiance for you and other subs . Words like TRUST and RESPECT are thrown about but are they really taken seriously by the Dom who your about to trust with your care during a session ? Is he just feeding her a line and has no intention of doing things right like establishing a "Safe Word" before ANY activties are to begin ? Does he find out about any limits you may have ? And does he truly respect your rights to enjoy the session your about to commit to with him ? All very valid questions . On average, it takes a certain amount of time spent in conversation to know just exactly she's looking to learn and accomplish within a session . Does he even know what "aftercare is all about ? Again Becca has a very valid point ! my advice to any woman who is considering being taught BDSM and Bondage has the right to ask questions of her choosing . And if a potential Dom is hesitant to answer any question or avoids a pointed question, consider your options ladies . The point of having several conversations or meetings is to know without a doubt that your Safe with this Dominant or Dominatrix . It's been said that the submissive is the one TRULY in charge of any session by her rights to void anything she does'nt want to do or partisipate in, PERIOD ! Unfortunately some Doms or Dommes place their needs before the subs who've entrusted their care and safty to them . In closing this evening, may I suggest that you do a thourogh examination of just who your getting involved with . ASK QUESTION, lots of them and ask them a second or third time noting their answers and views on your concerns . Take your time, do your homework properly, and be very careful with your choice . The proper Dominant or Dominatrix will shurly understand and welcome your questions at anytime . That is how trust is built between the both of you . And if there's the slighest of doubt in your mind about a potential Dom or Domme, error on the side of caution please and avoid making any mistakes you'd regret later on . Being a submissive can truly be a wonderful experiance and one you'll always be happy about ! And who knows, you just might find Mr. Right !!! Best of luck and be careful out there . If you have any questions or inquiries, you can message me at most anytime here on SexyAds . Thank you . HAPPY V.D. ??? Yea, Valentines Day ! What did you think I meant ???
Monday, February 14, 2011
So I'd like to close with some advice to all men out there...GET A CLUE SEX IS WAY BETTER THAN MOST ANYTHING ELSE YOU"D USUALLY BE DOING RIGHT NOW . And to the Ladies...Have a Very Happy Valentines day !!! May it be everything you'd hope it to be for you ! Peace and out, Bigfella44 from Wauseon, Ohio So then...What have I been Missing ???
Sunday, February 13, 2011
When anyone is AWOL for over 6 months I'm sure I've missed a great dael of things . And this is not like picking it up again and being able to get in touch, say "WASSUP" to them and being back in the LOOP !
For those of you who know me, I'm a Dominant who is a big gentle giant and likes to show young ladies the way around as a sub trainee . That sure has not changed ! To be very honest and frank with ya'll, members are not real good at answering back a message that you'd leave them, especially submissive ladies . I've put out close to 35 messages to subs with not one return message ! Makes me wonder, does'nt it ! And now I'm into AB/DL and would like to find a special play partner to explore it more deeply . Sure, It's not for everyone but I'm quite sure that some lady might be into it on here . I'm in the mood to get fired up again and start to smile more about life for the last 8 months I've been to hell and now I've made the return trip back to sanity !!! FEELS GREAT !!! Dropme a line and if nothing just say Hi Biggie...WASSUP fella !!!! Huggs, bigfella44 Remember me... ? Yea, I'm still alive and horny as ever !!!
Friday, February 11, 2011
Nice to be back and I'm back, better than ever ! Yea, I'm still a Dominant and yea, I'm still into training young ladies or for that matter any ladies the time honored art of Bondage/BDSM . I've found a few new play partners and am doing quite well these days . Nothing like some spirited subbie training to get a man back on track ! As unusual as it may seem, one of my new subbies is a AB/DL certified diaper wearing sub who has showed me some new twist to the old Bondage thing . Being a member of FetLife.com for four years now, I've always known it was out there but never thought it would find me in the person of this little diaper wearing dynamo ! As the old song goes.." ya just roll with it baby" and I guess I have .
A special hello goes out to my bestest friend on sexyads...The one and only Wicked Chick !!! Missed talking with you my Sweet Thang ! I'll be on alot more from now on !!! Huggs and peace friends, bigfella44 Evening my friends !!! I'm gonna be gone for a while .
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
I know I have'nt been too active lately due to several deaths in my family and I myself am now going to take a small sabatical myself . After three abnormal EKG test this last week, I'm going into the hospital for some surgery to fix some partially blocked arteries and some work on my left ventrical to correct a malfunction . I know, kinda sounds like taking your car to the shop for some adjustments and that's how I choose to view this . AIN'T SKARED !!! What the hell...it's just a minor glitch in the road of life, correct ??? So have a nice Thanksgiving, enjoy all the Turky you desire to and have a belt for me . I'll be back around the Christmas season to say Hi to ya'll and wish you a Merry Christmas !!! Keep the Faith Brothers and Sisters, see ya later, Peace and Out,
bigfella44 from Toledo, Ohio GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR can't reply to the e-mails. hey there sexy cowboy!!!!!!! SMACKKKKKKKKKKKKKK...(you said hit ya back)...
Added: Wednesday, March 18, 2009 3:56am
Thank you for the comment that was very nice of you! Ginger Added: Sunday, February 22, 2009 6:43am
I can understand it is like when I found out that I was craving something and it was in the submissive cat. that I couldn't put that back in the closet and hide it away. Lucky for me my husband understands and is working it out with me. Added: Tuesday, February 17, 2009 7:17pm
Would love to talk anytime. Thank you for the sweet comment. Added: Monday, February 16, 2009 6:39pm
OK i am offically ready to retire now...lol been so busy lately with the jobs that i think its time for a vacation. HMMMMMMMM someplace warm...well it sounded good....lol they wouldn't let me take any time off right now with all the building and expanding they are doing at the moment. I promise i will be back online on a regular basis soon. they can't work me like this forever....CAN THEY? isn't there a law or something they have to give me a day off at least once a decade?....lol ok enough of the jokes...they not even funny to me....lol hugs to you tracie Added: Tuesday, February 10, 2009 7:29am
good morning my dear, how are things?..little hetic around here right now. just thought i would drop you a hello and see how you were and to let you know that i should be back online next week (fingers crossed).... have a totaly awesome day, hugs tracie Added: Wednesday, February 4, 2009 5:01am
goooood morning, and i totaly agree with your statement as to somethings just shouldn't been seen by everyone... awwww small grandson huh?...i can't wait until i get some...i mean i can wait because i still think of my daughters as my babies but really looking forward to being a granny someday. ok here comes the shyness...i ever know what to say to a person (at least until im comfortable with them as a friend then watch out...lol). just walked in from work and my moose is letting me know that he needs a outside break (100 lb black german shepard) well better get going because cleaning up a mess he would make is not something i find very appealing...lol hugs tracie Added: Friday, January 30, 2009 5:27am
lol i like the sense of humor. i was chuckling out loud and daughter thought i slipped the rest of the way out of reality...lol sorry to hear about your accident. my dad had one on the job also and still to this day it gives him trouble so i can imagine must do the same for you... i was actually in your neighboring area this morning...had to go to chicago for the railroad... did ya hear me beep the horn?...lol j/k was like at 4 oclock this morning i was coming back through there. yes maybe we will get to meet for coffee or something (not a coffee drinker but i love hot chocolate)...our illegal exchanges huh? well the comments are legal just not allowed to tell ya my e-mail in them...lol well off to play some golf...have a totaly awsome day don't forget to smile tracie Added: Tuesday, January 27, 2009 7:04am
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