well i went to stay at the ex wife this weekend, i thought we were doing great. but i guess i was wrong, she told me that she had been talking to some guy on a dating site, and that he didn`t want to smoking.  i told her the same thing, but i guess i`m not good enough to listen to. but all this time she has led me to think we could get back together. talk about getting your heart ripped out!!!!! so i think it`s time i leave the state of mn. and find somewhere else to live, that way i can heal this pain in my heart.