It's been a while since I've posted a blog so here goes. I know alot of people are here looking for sex, chat, friends or just look to see whats out there. But are there anyone actually looking for a lasting relationship? I know some say I need to go to another place for that. But to be honest, sex is a part of a relationship so, being up front that I like sex lot and think about it as much as a man is real enough. But also looking for the lasting thing of hearts and  minds connecting too.

Ok ,Like  the rest of us, I like to be all hot and sweaty  provided there's a hot man in bed with me, maybe the fan blowing on us. But with the ac on, fan, and ceiling fan, and no man here.It's way to hot and the sweat is making my skin crawl. Time for a shower.

Thanks for the Friends with benefits blog and pic.got me warm.

Having moved almost every year growing up I've developed a very outgoing personality. Love making new friends and haven't met a stranger.Though getting to know people you get a sense of what they want or don't want from you. Finding out for sure depends on how close of friends you get. I'm not talking material things , though some I've found go that route. But others want just friends which is great (male and female). Then others don't want more meaning just sex. I'm all for sex. Though wish I could find that one man for me. That feels the same. Love the sex being whatever makes us both happy, but want the hugs from behind while washing dishes,snuggling on the couch, holding hands, family stuff. The littlest things make a difference in a happy relationship. And I know it works both ways. So my man would recieve the same in return. I've made great friends on Sexy Ads and love logging on everyday. I'm in chat most nights. Though please keep it clean till I get to know you.then....But still looking for the one.Hopefully living close.Well it's 6 am. guess it's time to get up. Maybe I can catch a hour or two  sleep, yeh it's Saturday!

Ok I know that sounds a little cynical.But first husband cheated with a younger girl I was 21 at the time. Second husband introduced me to the swinging scene and when I started to enjoy myself ( getting past the nervousness), He cheats. Meaning had sex without approval from me. that was the condition for the swinging to happen.Then gets mad at me when a friend totally rocks my world. In a physical sense and with him present. He is now an ex and as much as I love sex its with me in a relationship. So after having held out for about three years gave it a chance. And after three month of dating and at least every other night sex. He leaves . No good bye or anything. I'm not the clingy sort he had his space so what gives?