How it Should Be

The way it should be....!

Getting to know someone intimately should reflect or include seduction and or mystery.
Seduction is enhanced by mystery, the unknown, the unfamiliar, the unpredictable, even the humorous.
Each turn of events increases the passion. The unknown is an integral part of any new relationship.
During a first seduction, virtually everything is unknown......the potential partners sexual likes and dislikes,
their sexual style, as well as their body's unique responses. The wonders and surprise that come hand in hand
with each revelation increases the erotic urgency and heightens the sexuality. It's where the unknown, the fascination,
and the mysterious collide and become extraordinary.
Every healthy sensual and or erotic relationship should allow partners to flirt, play games, and exploit their knowledge
of each other to heighten the sexuality. Risk is always involved in a new relationship. Those involved are at risk of being rejected,
exposed, or in some way hurt emotionally. I think that anticipation grows and heightens with the anxiety of failure and
contends with the possibility of success. With a little imagination, planning and a sense of adventure
anyone can add spice and mystery to their love life whether it be a new one or one of long term status.
Seduction is a challenge, a serious affair of sorts, it requires imagination, courage, even luck and yes it too can be humorous
and comical. Neither partner should ever forget humor....! Have fun, enjoy and explore, we are but ourselves and should not hide our truest self from what we desire, ...acceptance. If we are always playing a role,... however will we be truly happy...