First off, I'd like to thank everyone who did vote for me, I did appreciate it so much. But I do have to complain here because I feel as if the contest was rigged. In the couples category, I had the highest score but yet I still did not win. I don't know the reason behind this, but do think it's very unfair that someone who had a way lower score than me and some of the other entries won. We automatically get entered into the category in which our profile is, and I don't think it's very fair to expect both me and my husband to be in a pic together. My husband is not one to have his pic taken and I don't feel it's fair to discriminate against me because he didn't want to be part of the contest. I see the ones who won just so happened to bitch about the couples category, and kudos to them..guess their bitching paid off. Hope they enjoy winning a contest that they truely didn't win to begin with by scores any ways. Maybe that's what it takes to get your way around here, bitching and complaining. This has made my decission to never enter the photo contest again. Why enter if it's not going to be judged fairly? So, again.......I do thank all of you that did vote me, I luvs you all! And thank you for letting me vent and get this off my chest. Y'all have a wonderful day!   

Just wanted to wish y'all a very happy and safe halloween. Hope y'all get many treats........and watch out for the ghosts and goblins.........lol.

Ok, I'm usually not one to try to get attention.......but....I have entered 3 pics in the new photo contest. I would really appreciate any and all votes from the members here. I have so far received many nice compliments on the pics, and would like to thank you all so much! Even though I may not contact every person that writes, tickles, and leaves comments on profile and pics......I do thank all of you. It is always nice to receive compliments. So, I do thank all of you, god bless you!

I often sit back and laugh at how people perceive things. Everyone has there own perception on thoughts, ideas, and people. I often see in profiles when describing themselves people who say that they are slim, when they are far from slim, people that say they are average and are a larger person, and I have seen a lot that say they are a little chubby or large when they aren't at all. I'm not knocking anyone for being the way they are, but it is funny to see how people perceive themselves. I know that we are all human and we all have our own prefrences on what body type we like for our partner/partners, but people don't realize when others are looking at their profile the way they describe themselves shows the perception they have of themselves. To me, I don't like when people describe themselves as being one way and yet all their pics show a different story, to me that's like being lied to, and makes me think that that person either doesn't think to highly of themselves, or thinks that they are all that and a bag of chips too....lol. I guess because I'm an honest person and always say things as I see them, even if it's considered being rude, I can't fathom the thought of describing myself any other way than what I am. I'm a very thin woman, weighing 100 lbs. I get lots of comments on my body, some very nice comments, but I also get even more rude, insulting comments, usually from heavier people, saying that I need to eat....you're nothing but skin and bones..........yadda yadda yadda. Well, just an FYI.............I really don't care what anyone thinks of me, I'm very happy with myself and the way I look, not to mention I can out eat most people I know. I'm just a fortunate person that has a very fast metabolism, I burn fat easily. So for those of you that have rude, derogatory comments maybe you should think before you say anything about anyone else. Being jealous of others because they are thinner than you or because they're more popular than you just goes to show your own insecurities in yourself. Seriously, I've never told someone that maybe they need to get off their couch and quit stuffing cookies and cakes down their face every ten minutes because they are over weight. So, I really think people should do like my mom always said............if you have nothing nice to say, then don't say anything at all. Just remember, people are human, we are all different in many ways, but we all do have feelings. And to me, no one should criticize others for their bodies and their weight, especially if you have no clue on how the person lives. Some people do have medical conditions that cause them to be the shape they are, others don't, but no one deserves to be criticized because of their body. People need to be a little more considerate towards others and try to put yourself in that person shoes, until you walk in their shoes you don't have any business saying anything at all about that person. We all perceive things differently and that's what makes things interesting, but do remember people do have feelings, and you should never go out of your way to be rude or condescending towards others.........makes you look like a mean, nasty person. And that's my perception on things. Looking forward to see the comments on this one. Have a wonderful, fun filled, sexy day y'all!!!!!   

Just wanted to wish y'all a happy 4th of July. Hope y'all have a safe and happy holiday!