I am writing this blog because I am appalled to the response of some of the members here who are upset at some of the new changes for Free/VIP members. Please ask yourself some of these questions.

Would you go to your job everyday and work for free?

Would you own a business that did not pay your bills at home?

 Would you keep that business that did not make some kind of a small profit after owning it for years?

Would you expect your employees to work for you for free?

Well I know that I just answered NO to each and everyone of those. Did you???
If you didn't then more power to you in your financial future.
If you come here and use this site more than once a day then you should pay for it. But that is my opinion not Sexy Ads. I have been on this site for almost 3 years now and except for a few months of those I have always been a VIP. I do realize that not everyone has the ability to pay every month but in saying that don't bitch about what you can't do here! I have been to other sites as well as I am sure 99% of you have too but which one do you always log into everyday?  Is there one that you can do half as much here for free?  If there is then I say , go for it!  The ones that leave usually end up returning after awhile, am I right???  I know I have just probably got the bitch of the month award for blogs but I just don't get why some of you don't get it!  If you just stop the next time you start to bitch about what you don't get here for free, try another site or think about the questions above and answer them. 
Like I said before if you truly can not afford to pay for the membership then DON'T!!!
But  do not bitch about the site owners and their staff wanting to pay their bills to live!  Again,  I would not work at a job or own business that did not pay my bills would you???
 Now that I live in NZ I know what it cost to live in this country  and it is worse in Aus and believe me it is not a cheap place to live.
Personally to Maureen and Jayce thank you for the things that you do offer to free members here. If there is a time when we can not pay for our memberships then I will not be one to bitch about what I can't do for free.  

Now that is my  and I will get off the  box now.
 I would welcome feed back on this postitive or negative.

Kissses to all,
Rose

Woo Hoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  My NZ visa went through today so I am not an alien anymore, lol. Ah and I don't want to hear any comments from anyone on that remark. lol  It has been a good day, its 4nik8er's bday, the visa went through and I am going to go and embarrass him tonight at the pub with a cake and 48 candles on it.  Please don't let the place burn down.
Kisses to all and have a great day/evening!

Rose

 Sorry guys this is a serious blog. I am writing this blog today for me and if anyone reads it and it touches them somehow, then I will feel good about it. 
I have been reading all the 9/11 blogs today and for myself relieved this day twice this year. Yesterday here in NZ was 9/11 and today at home it is 9/11 again.  Do you remember what you were doing when the terrorist struck our people, our lives and our hearts?  I remember so well. I will never forget that day or even that year. 9/11 was not the only thing that I felt loss for that year. My whole world turned upside down and a large part of me died that  year. I did not know anyone that perished that day in NY but I know  what the country and how their families felt that day.  I did survive that year but to tell you the truth everyday I wonder how.  As my life and my heart healed.  I have become a new person as I am sure every family member of the 9/11 attacks have.  It was not an easy road and I felt lost for many years and my life and my children's lives have never been the same since.  But we made it thorough it and are starting to live again. We all have come to realize that family is what matters the most. I may not be able to touch my children and grand children in the US everyday but it does not mean I love or miss them any less.
So let us never forget or try to forget our past and our pain that we felt that day or for me that whole year. It is part of who we are and were we are going in life.  If any family member of the 9/11 attacks reads this, please know this,  you are not forgotten. We all still grieve with you just as much as we did that day in 2001.

RIP to all the 9/11 victims and to  Mikayla, Marty, Tommy and Mom. I miss you all so much. I will see you all someday again.
To my beautiful friend Susan, please know my heart and thoughts are with you now. I love you.

Rose

Hello all,  it is Fathers day here in NZ.  I just wanted to wish all you a wonderful Fathers Day!!!  To you 4nik, thank you for being a wonderful father, not just to your own girls but to my son as well.  He is growing up to be a wonderful little man in just the short time we have been here thanks to all the love and support you give him. Kisses baby see ya when you get home.

Happy Labour Day to all of the USA. This is one of my most favourite holidays at home.  Enjoy your weekend and the time with your family and friends.

Rose