I never could figure why alot not all women but alot think they have to loose weight or gain it if there told there to thin by a guy. A woman should only change things she herself feels needs it do to health or for her own needs not to please some man. Most men want only that look do to knowing that with time those looks change so they can say stay as I want you or im out of there. Those that do that to women should have to see how it hurts them deeply and how it makes some feel if that one man dont want them none will. That is not true! the truth is that women are beautiful its just most men cant see whats really there. So ladys dont change for us and always know your beautiful. The mens eyes may be clouded but they should never cloud your eyes and make you not see the true beauty that is there in yourself.

People always say life is to short, But with life being so short why do most want to rush threw it always wanting to get there soner, or wanting that next day to hurry up and get there just to have it come and go. In todays time we never take time to just enjoy life and all it holds for us. So many beautiful people and beautiful things go un noticed just because we all get into to big of a hurry. Takr time and enjoy life.

I know that each of us has our wild times and mild times but no matter what we do we spend our time going threw life looking for that perfect ( person, house, car, or just the perfect life ) we want it so bad we tend to over look what is really there most times. There are times a great friend might be as they say just under our noses but we tend to over look what's there hopeful of that something or someone better to come along. I  found a lot of great friends in here and in life by finally opening my eyes and seeing what's there.

Most people go threw life thinking what will others think about me, the am I good enough, tall enough, kind, enough, or so many other worrys that go threw there minds as to what others will think. I one person that truely matters is yourself you have to be happy with yourself and just not worry about what they think. Just be true to your heart and to yourself and others will see the joy in your life.