Female, 53 United States
12,462 kms from you
1/29....the day I found out the camera on my phone kinda SUX! *lol*
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A long term relationship
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NO married men please
BBW seeking men
Please don't ask...I just am NOT the "other woman" type...if U're with me, I am "the" woman, or better yet, "your" woman. So many of U are so sweet and yes, hot, but I just can't be that for U, sorry.
I need someone who actually LOOKS FORWARD to me...seeing me, talking to me, respecting me and my time. So what am I really looking for? I guess I want a boyfriend, not just a FWB...or maybe a FWB who is actually a FRIEND?
I still crave the company of a man...want the ability to give and receive mental, physical, and sexual pleasures, have a pleasant conversation, take in a movie, local event or just a walk in the park...U know, companionship and fun.
After 30+ yrs of marriage, I am enjoying experiencing freedom! I'm not looking for a husband but am quite open to it should something special occur. AGAIN, NO MARRIED MEN PLEASE.
I'm an intelligent, fun-loving, outgoing woman who knows what she wants, yet isn't too demanding. For those who want a woman to tell them what she wants, U FOUND HER! *laugh* I'm definitely not the shy type, do love to flirt and banter yet still love to be pampered and taken care of.
U R: D/D free, safe, non-tobacco user (a must), have a sense of humor, general happiness; intelligence and imagination (and a regular paycheck *gglz*) is a plus! Physical age unimportant; mental age, attraction and chemistry IS.
PLEASE BE LOCAL: I am already overwhelmed and overrun with very sweet, interesting, intelligent men who want a long distance or online email/chat relationship, so if you aren't able to travel often or aren't local, I AM JUST NOT INTERESTED.
Oh, and another important point: I'm very tactile, affectionate and playful, publicly and privately. If this is not acceptable to U, please don't contact me.
I'm not meaning to be rude, just honest.
420 friendly, but rarely drink alcohol, except a sip of wine, a bit of wine tasting or aperitif on occasion.
Drop me a comment, or an email if U're VIP...thx for stopping by!
Ooo, and to learn more about me, ck out my blog...the mysteries of the world may be revealed to U there! *laugh*
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I think we ALL get the same/similar question, repeatedly...
What it basically boils down to is this: What turns U on? What makes U hot? I really don't know how many answers there will be, and I'm sure U will pardon me as I meander off-topic once in awhile, no? Comments ALWAYS welcomed...
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ANYONE ELSE HVG TROUBLE W/TICKLES??
Sunday, December 16, 2012
My tickles are all clumped up on each other!
Oooo, wait, that could be FUN! But seriously, they are all pushed up on the left side of the page and one on top of the other!
BIKER MAN WHO SENT TICKLE, PLS RESPOND TO BLOG!!!
Happy Holidays y'all!
Saturday, November 24, 2012
THANK YOU to everyone who sent me birthday wishes!! Still thankful for this lovely community and the sweet souls who are part of it, just have given up finding someone who is right for me. Oregon is beautiful and I am working now, THANK GAWD, and have a routine, don't mind the rain.
Hope everyone's Thanksgiving was warm, peaceful and wonderful!
And so the circle closes....
Friday, January 13, 2012
I just wanted to stop in and thank my many friends who have journeyed with me during the move to Oregon and the caring for my father. Daddy passed away very peacefully on Thursday, January 12th at exactly 11:30am, with my mother and myself by his side.
There is a hole in my heart the size of the Pacific ocean, but his last words of "Love you" a few days before will forever try to fill it.
A little advice: Forget any differences you may have regarding 'things', 'hurts' and 'stuff' that went before, as people will be gone before you know it. Hold your loved ones near and tell them that you love them every day.
I am grateful to have been able to share and care for him these last few months, and will forever be Daddy's Little Girl.
Peace to U all and many bright blessings to U an Urs...
NOT ANYONE'S UNPAID HOOKER
Friday, December 30, 2011
Ok, so I have not been adverse to the FWB (friends with benefits) thing because of my situation w/my dad's illness.
I have been intrigued by and met a few gentlemen of late who were looking for FWB, but in doing so, I've discovered that men and women don't seem to define "FWB" the same!!
Woman: Friends, with intimacy benefits...companionship, going to a movie or an event, snuggling, cuddling, kissing, sex.
Man: BENEFITS, period...no friendship, no movies or hanging out or cuddling and kissing, JUST SEX.
Gentlemen, this equates to the woman just being an unpaid hooker!!
I had met a nice young man and we were planning to spend New Year's eve together, until he got invited to a friends' and didn't consider me enough of a friend to take w/him, but was ok w/me coming over to his place afterward to stay the night! That is NOT treating me like a friend!!
If U just wanna get laid, then change Ur ads to NSA without the "or FWB" status, or booty-call bandit!
It's frustrating to waste so much time and energy into getting to know someone and meeting them to find out all they want is to get laid. What is the problem with the FRIENDSHIP part anyway??? UGH!!
Sorry, but I guess I needed to vent...just so frustrating for me to waste precious "me time" (as I devote so much to my dad's care I don't have a lot of time for myself) on someone I had hoped wld work out to be a friend and lover, to find they just want a booty call once in awhile. ARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!
OH, and BTW:
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Darlin', I can't read Ur emails but if U still have my private contact info, write me there...if not, we'll need to work out a time to meet in the chat room. ;-)
Hope your day is filled with your favorite things!!!
Added: Sunday, November 20, 2011 7:31am
Lol, no the pic of the snake was sent to me, thank goodness. Do not want that anywhere near where I live.
Added: Wednesday, May 18, 2011 2:21am
Whooohooo Thanks for your compliment on my poem Hon. It was fun trying to write it. Did you notice it touched on the six senses?
Added: Sunday, May 1, 2011 8:40pm
if they'd get this "teleporting" thing figured out, i'd be there RIGHT NOW...!
Added: Thursday, April 28, 2011 11:02pm
Haven't missed your chance at all...we just keep missing each other. I'm sorry, I have just been super busy lately. I really want to connect with you though
Added: Tuesday, April 12, 2011 2:44pm
Nice! I actually spent the last couple weekends up there, I love it especially now that all the cherry blossoms are out down by the river. It's really gorgeous
Added: Friday, April 8, 2011 2:24pm
Not shy, just not a full member unfortunately. I would love to talk though
Added: Wednesday, March 23, 2011 4:14pm
you have a great singing voice i like to sing to that special; lady when i find her
Added: Monday, March 21, 2011 12:58am
Getting better with each day! Can't wait to get out.
Glad to see for you "Life is Good "
Added: Tuesday, February 15, 2011 12:10am
Hi Deb, how you been? It's lonely up here in Portland. When you coming back?
Added: Wednesday, February 2, 2011 8:45am
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