ok so apparently my first blog didn't make it across to many people (men)... I am not interested in the first line of an email or conversation being wanna fuck??? Are you wet???  What are you into (as in sex)???  I have a hell of a lot more self respect and am not interested in being treated like the neighborhood whore (NO THAT IS NOT A FANTASY OF MINE!!!)  I am here to meet some decent guys, who after getting to know me are interested in having some fun.  I am STILL not interested in men my father's age ( over 55).

I have met many NICE guys that I do enjoy talking too, and having some fun with, they know who they are, and I appreciate their true efforts at being gentlemen and treating me with great respect, THANK YOU!!!!

Also there are some who are very nice men I'm sure,  I have had try to talk to me and I have not had a chance to talk to them because I am too busy dodging the exact men I am trying to avoid!!!  If You are only interested in SEX and not a friendship of any kind go find someone interested in the same because that isn't ME!!!!
Sorry for coming across as a total bitch but I'm just tired of wasting my time on the ones that don't interest me in the slightest...Just being as honest as possible.

Ok so #1 that Turns me OFF - telling me 2 seconds after saying Hi how you want to use&abuse my Body is a HUGE TURN OFF!!!  I like to get to know someone first. The mind is a much sexier thing then just telling me where you want to put your tongue or your dick.

#2 Turn OFF - Men 3 times my age assuming that I want to do them.  I like sex just as much as the next person, but I am not turned on by men in the 60's or older unless you are Harrison Ford or Shawn Connery. Sorry I just can't imagine being with some one my Dad's age.

#3 Turn OFF - PLEASE stop asking me what I am wearing, I am a single mom of 4, I will tell you what I am wearing.. Usually sweats, because I have very little time to sit down in front of the computer and if I do, I don't waste what precious time I have by running to put on my sexiest lingerie to sit in front of a computer where NO ONE is gonna see it except maybe my kids.

#4 TURN OFF - asking me to view your web cam with NO WARNING that your dick is in your hand and your naked body is going to plastered all over my screen in seconds.  I have children and DO NOT want them accidentally seeing what you feel the need to show off.  Asking me to view your web cam is fine but give me a clue what it is I might be looking at, so I have the option to accept or decline seeing you naked.

OK enough ranting about turn off now on to the TURN ONS

#1 TURN ON - Tons of conversation getting to know you, with lots of helpless FLIRTING (not graphic sex talk) but genuine flirting.

#2 TURN ON - Picture of who I am talking to, please be prepared to show me who you are, by emailing me a pic, posting one or  letting me see you FULLY clothed or face only in a web cam. This only adds to my enjoyment to know who I am talking to

#3 TURN  ON -  Being patient with my email responses and my chat responses, I do have 4 kids and sometimes life gets in the way, but my family always comes first, if you understand that and let me know it, You will gain a HUGE number of points with me.

#4 TURN ON - Genuine compliments, honesty, sincereity and plain old fashioned fun flirting.

Ok now you know the do's and don't of chatting it up or emailing Kymber Please remember them