I have been here for some time,I've had a total of two nicks' and I have met a whole bunch of friends, none that I  have met in person,but some I have spoken too on the phone a few times.I am always amazed at the things some of us girls will do in terms of getting and keeping attention focused on them. I t has taken me twenty years with the help of my wife whom I love dearly  to mold me into some reasonable fascimile of  a woman.  She has only only one basic rule about me,,and that is that I must behave myself,and not be a "slut".Other than that ,I can act as i please. When I say "slut" ,I mean in everyway,how I act,talk,and get along with others.

  What I wonder about is this. After a girl spends so much time and effort trying to refine herself into something she is excited about, how is it that they can just drop it in a second when some person speaks,or makes some very un-savory remark concerning what she should do just to please him or her. I hate to see girls whom i know have gone thru hell to be who they are, become the participant in any kind of de-basing behaviour. On the otherhand,i'm sure there are a plenty of " imposters" who's only desire is to do exactly what i'm talking about just for the "thrill of it",or as I have seen,,some that can be a Domme on one day and a very "in love submissive " the next day. Sometimes I just wonder where they coming from. What I wanta say girls,and guys,,just behave.Don't be so dam extreme,but be yourself. In that way,we will know what we are dealing with.     Gina