consider my comments below to apply to any and every ad on my profile.

when it comes to my likes and dislikes, it is way easier to tell you what i do not want. if something is not included below, i'm interested in it! :)

1) i do NOT want any kind of bdsm. i do not like it. i am not interested in it. i don't want any part of it, either as sub or domme. this is not negotiable.

2) i do not want any part of scat or urination. period. this is not up for discussion either.

3) no name-calling. it's not sexy or funny. i wouldn't treat you disrespectfully - i expect the same of you.

come find me in the chat room...

i can't help it: i'm big. big-hearted. big-minded with big ideas. sometimes i use big words. i dream big. hope big. i have big tastes, big interests, big talent. (not so big in ambition, though.) i'm big on creativity. big on respect. i'm really big on freedom! i'm big on tolerance and brotherly love. big on self-expression. super-duper big on honesty and courage.

physically, i'm only on the sort-of-large side of bbw. (they always run out of clothing in my size. everything on the rack is either too large or too small.) but i make up for that with all my other "bigs".

what are you big on? i want to meet people who are big on most of these same things!

by the way - your actual physical size is irrelevant, as are your race, religion, color, ancestry, and to a certain extent your age.

come chat in the bedroom!

ok. i have to admit i lost a couple layers of skin in that last fire. but life is for living and enjoying...

no more harboring fear or disappointments. no more renting space in my head to could haves, should haves or would haves.

find something interesting to talk about, and chat me up in the bedroom.

me: tenderhearted, compassionate, loving, generous, understanding, supportive, smart, strong, sexy and feminine

you: appreciative, plus every other good quality you bring.

why don't you put your best foot forward and show me all those fine qualities of yours? i'm an excellent listener, friendly and open.

oh, wait! we still need to let each other know where our faults lie.

me: apparently i snore. i'm untidy and i procrastinate. i've been told i'm nice to a fault.

you: ?? (the faults i won't accept from you: don't be mean. or evil. or violent.)