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Monday, November 16, 2009
Huh??
In the last 6 months or so I'd started exchanging friendly, gettin' to know ya Emails with 3 different SA members Two of them had approached me saying they wanted to get to know me and the third was a result of blog comments. Things were going along at a leisurely pace until in all three cases there they wuz.......gone. Gone, I mean in terms of no more Emails, although one of 'em has since left SA. Now, there was no warning or anything of the sort, it was pretty much overnight. One of 'em has even gone so far as to remove herself from my friends gallery. I have gone over all the Emails I sent these ladies and for the life of me I can't figure out what it was that resulted in this course of action or inaction as it were. Oh well, life does of course, go on, but I must admit to being a little perplexed.and bemused. Whasup???? Ciao What's the deal? Gerry Seinfeld The easiest kind of relationship for me is with 10,000 people. The hardest is with one. Joan Baez Diplomacy is the art of saying "Nice doggie" while you look for a rock. Will Rogers Michael Jackson - Epilogue
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Michael Jackson: Epilogue On June 25th 2009 the icon known as the "King of Pop" after not being on a stage for nearly a decade and a mere handful of days away from opening an incredible string of 50 sold out concerts, crashed and burned. The drug related death of 50 year old Michael Jackson sent shock waves 'round the world. Just as his life was fraught with controversy so too was his untimely death and it's aftermath. An ongoing custody dispute for his three children, Prince Michael 12, Paris Katherine 11 and Prince Michael II (Blanket) 7 is raging. Presently the grandmother of the children, Katherine Jackson has been granted temporary custody, but Debbie Rowe who initially said she was not going to seek custody, is rumoured to be reconsidering and may yet exercise her parental rights over the elder two children at least. Blanket's mother has never been identified. It is to be hoped that if Katherine Jackson retains custody she will keep them as far away as possible from the epitome of abusive parents, Joseph Jackson. I have some pretty strong feelings on that subject as I too was raised by an abusive parent and some of the memories of that period of my life are still very fresh. This blog isn't about me however, so enough said about that. I have to say from the outset that I was never a Michael Jackson fan. I was too put off by all the nonsense associated with him. The plastic surgeries, the dangling of the baby from the balcony of a Berlin hotel suite and the child molestation allegations (which I now flat out disbelieve, I think that he was in fact the victim in both cases). I believe it's instructive to note that, (a) he was an easy and tempting target because of his penchant for preferring the company of children over adults, (b) both families involved got rich off his back, and (c) once they got their hands on the lucre both families immediately stopped cooperating with the investigating authorities. I just watched "This Is It" and after leaving the theatre I couldn't get home fast enough to start banging away on my laptop because I wanted to get down what I felt while it was all still fresh in my mind. I only delayed long enough to give Sammi the dog a few cuddles and pour myself a stiff shot of Scapa (single malt scotch). I was fascinated, nay, I was mesmerized while watching him work with the crew, backup singers, dancers and musicians as they all toiled to put together what would have been a fabulous string of unforgtettable concerts. There were those (me included) that thought when it was first announced that he was going to hit the concert circuit again at the age of 50 that he couldn't possibly still have his game up to snuff, that he must surely have lost it. Well, in my humble opinion he hadn't lost a thing, at least until that fateful, tragic moment when he lost absolutely everything. He still had all the moves, the flourishes, the charisma, the mastery and outright ownership of whatever stage he was on. He was still able to seemingly float around without his feet ever leaving the floor. Did I say I was never a Michael Jackson fan??? I can't ever say that again. After having done all the research invlolved in producing my previous blogs about him and after watching the movie/documentary, I AM a Michael Jackson fan albeit a little late in the day. Before I wrap it up I want to say something about how all those people that were involved with him in the production of the concerts that never were must have felt when the news of his death reached them. Grief, disbelief, and once it sunk in, I imagine they were stunned almost to the point of being numb. They must have felt like the rug.....no, that's wrong....like their whole world had just been pulled out from under them. This planet is diminished by his loss and will not likely ever see anyone quite like him again, at least not in my lifetime.. Ciao I just want to say ever since I was born, Daddy has been the best father you can ever imagine. And I just want to say I love him so much. Paris Katherine Jackson H1N1/Michael Jackson/SPCA
Friday, November 6, 2009
A while ago I blogged about my nervousness over H1N1. So far I'm unscathed and I've had the vaccine. My landlord after finding he had H1N1 spent three or four days at home, developed a pretty serious case of pneumonia and was in the hospital for another 5 days. He's back home now and recovered. I intend to go see 'This Is It' pretty soon, after which I'll be doing a follow up on the Michael Jackson blogs I posted several weeks ago. SPCA animal shelters A couple of months ago I started volunteering at an SPCA animal shelter. They have around a hundred cats and kittens, a dozen dogs, a couple of gerbils, a guinie pig, a couple of budgies, a parakeet and two rabbits. It's a mixed bag from an emotional point of view. It's a worthwhile place to be giving some time to, and I feel good about it from that viewpoint, but there's no getting around the sad overtones of that sort of work and I've been fnding that it's taking a tole. With the exception of some strays, every animal in the place was given up by somebody, and it's a pretty safe bet most of the strays became so because some lowlife abandoned them. The staff and volunteers do what they can but all the creatures great and small that are there are absolutely starved for affection.As soon as I walk into one of the cat rooms they're all over me like white on snow I don't ever leave the place feeling uplifted, just sad. To illustrate....I've walked a lot of the dogs that are there and two in particular I've walked several times. Their names were Theodore and Africa and they were both large mixed breeds. I would walk one of them at at a time because they were so big and strong. They were around seven years old and had been companions since they were puppies. Everybody was really hoping that if they got rescued it would be as a pair. I went in last Friday to find Theodore had been adopted and Africa had been left behind. I felt bad for Africa, but I was happy for Theodore.h The following Monday I went in and decided to take Africa out for a walk and who should be sitting in the kennel beside her but Theodore. My heart sank some because of the fact that he only lasted a weekend in his new home. He was evidently over protective and bit somebody that had been visiting at his new home. So, it was back to the shelter except this time it was with an aggressive designation. I wasn't even allowed to take him for a walk because of it. Africa will never see her lifelong friend and companion again....he was euthanized. Ciao I'd rather have an inch of dog than miles of pedigree. Dana Burnet Hi, handsome hunting man Fire your little gun Bang! Now the animal Is dead and dumb and done. Nevermore to peep again, creep again, leap again Eat or sleep or drink again. Oh, what fun. Walter de la Mare Dancing with H1N1
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Okay, maybe I'm just a "Nervous Nellie", but I AM nervous. Here's the situation. In today's morning paper was a prominently featured story about the fact that 50% of the people in this province (British Columbia) that are reporting in with flu like symptoms are testing H1N1 positive. 50 bloody percent!!!! The rest of the country is around 10%. I've got a couple of neurological problems the foremost of which is Multiple Sclerosis, and as a result my immune system is dodgy at best. To cap it off, my landlord's family of three (I live in a basement suite), just arrived back yesterday from a week in Mexico. He apparently was sick the entire time they were there, and went straight to a clinic this morning, and you guessed it. He's got H1N1. Now, that's a little too close for comfort. It's true we don't share anything except the laundry facilities, but still.......... So, I'm a teensy bit unsettled. BTW I feel fine. I'll keep ya posted, hopefully it'll all come to naught. Ciao Anxiety is the interest paid on trouble before it is due. Dean William R. Inge Worrying helps you some. It seems as if you are doing something when you are worrying. Lucy Maude Montgomery Elegant Gypsy
Sunday, August 30, 2009
This blog may only be of interest to jazz guitar lovers and players. Be that as it may I'll try and do justice to the genius that was Django.
Django Reinhardt Jean-Baptiste Reinhardt (Django) January 24, 1910 - 16 May, 1953 was born in Liberchies, Pont-a-Celles, Belguim. This Belgian Gypsy who spent most of his youth in Gypsy encampments, was destined to become arguably the most influential European of the 20th century in the world of music and jazz specifically. I'm not personally a big jazz fan, some I like, most hard jazz I don't care for, but I can become almost entranced listening to him play. No other European had the kind of impact on jazz the 'Elegant Gypsy' did. Near what is known as old Paris is a belt of fortifications, and it was near one of the gates (the Choisy) that Django's tribe set up camp when he was 8. The French Gypsies also known as Manouches were a world unto themselves. Distrustful of modern science and technology, they were positively medieval in their beliefs and practices. He lived in what simply had to have been a world of contradictions. One foot in modern, cosmopolitan Paris, and the other in the centuries old life of the nomadic Gypsy. He never wore a suit or lived in a real house 'til the age of 20. Though he was born into poverty he had almost an aristocratic persona. It's been said he had the soul of a nobleman, with an urbane bearing and attitude which can be heard in his music. He was taller than most French Gypsies and had wide shoulders, and his figure gave the impression of controlled power. Django (meaning 'I awake' in Romany) developed an interest in music at an early age. He got his first instrument when he was 12. It was a banjo/guitar given to him by a neighbour who had noticed the boy's interest in music. He very quickly learned to play. He would mimick the fingerings of musicians he watched. Before long he was blowing the adults away with his mastery of the instrument. Before he was 13 he had begun his musical career playing with a popular accordionist at a dance hall. He played with numerous bands and musicians and made his first recordings with accordionist Jean Vaissade in 1928. Django couldn't read or write so "Jiango Renard" was how his name appeared on the records. On November 2nd, 1928, at the age of 18, after an evening of playing he returned home to the caravan he and his new wife lived in. His wife was trying to help make ends meet by making artificial flowers out of celluloid (flammable as hell) and the caravan was filled with the flowers and materials. The story goes that Django thought he heard a mouse amongst the flowers so he bent over with a candle to check it out. The wick fell of the candle into the flowers, and Whoooosh!!!! The caravan was engulfed in flame within seconds! The couple managed to escape the caravan with the help of some neigbours, but Django had first and second degree burns on his left hand, and on his right side from knee to waist. His wife's hair was burned as well, but she hadn't been burned with the same severity as had Django, Doctors told him he'd never play guitar again, and they wanted to amputate his right leg. He refused them permission for the operation so they transferred him to a nursing home that supposedly had a reputation for excellent care. They must have been doing something right because they saved the leg the other guys wanted to lop off. He was bedridden for 18 months. During the recovery period his brother, Joseph, gave him a guitar. Joseph, btw was no slouch on the guitar in his own right. Django was a determined man, and created an entirely new method of fingering. The 4th and 5th fingers on his left hand were permanently curled towards the palm because the tendons had shrunk from the heat of the flames. He found he was able to use them on the first two strings for chords and octaves. His solos were all played using the index and middle fingers only.Film clips of him playing show the unusual technique to be very graceful and precise. He was influenced by the recordings of early jazz performers such as Eddie Lang, Joe Venuti, Louis Armstong and Duke Ellington. Jazz was a tailor made vehicle for him to use his enormous improvisational talents. He almost never played a solo the same way twice, and his recordings prove this to be true. As well as being a superb improvisor he was also a composer who created numerous pieces with beautifully sophisticated, subtle and sometimes haunting melodies. As referred to earlier, he could not read or write, which put him at the mercy of sharks that would sometimes write his stuff down on paper and take it for themselves. One of the most important years of his life was 1934 because it was the year The Quintet of the Hot Club of France was created. The group was HOT. Fate played a benevolent part in that it was from a chance meeting between Django and a violin player named Stephane Grappelli that was the genesis of the quintet. A 14 member band, among whom were Django, Stephane, Roger Chaput, Louis Vola and Django.s brother Joseph was commissioned to play at the Hotel Cambridge at teatime. During imtermissions Django woud find a quiet corner and sit down and play his guitar. One day Stephane joined him, and after playing together for a bit they decided they liked what they were hearing. They played more and more and Roger Chaput (guitar), Louis Vola (bass) and Joseph (guitar) began joining in. They began recording with a small record company called Ultraphone. Their first records Dinah, Tiger Rag, Oh Lady Be Good, and I Saw Stars caused a sensation, and the Quintet recorded hundreds more records which gained them a following on both sides of the Atlantic. It was one of the few well-known jazz groups that was composed entirely of stringed instruments. They were able to get a percussive sound with their guitars. A short word about Stephane Grappelli. He was a man , much like Les Paul in that he didn't believe just because the calendar and mirror told him he was getting older, that there was any reason to slow down or stop doing what he loved. I used to have a disc before my relationship break-up, of a concert he recorded at the age of 94 and he sounded as good as he ever did. The quintet was playing in England in 1939 when the 'Dogs of War' were released and WW II began. Stephane stayed in England while Django returned to France leaving his wife in England. He played and recorded throughout the war. He survived WW II unscathed which was rather remarkable since hundreds of thousands of Gypsies perished in the Nazi death camps. It was even more remarkable when you consider the Nazis didn't permit the playing or recording of jazz. What was apparently at play was a Luftwaffe officer Dietrich Schulz-Kohn, nicknamed "Doktor Jazz", who deeply admired Django's music and seemingly had enough clout that he was able to keep the Gestapo and SS off of Django's case. After the war he rejoined Stephane in England. Django was to eventually played with a number of American Jazz legends such as Coleman Hawkins, Benny Carter, Rex Stewart and did a jam session and radio performance with Louis Armtrong. Later on in his career he gigged with Dizzy Gillespie in France. In 1946 he toured as a guest soloist with Duke Ellington's band. Although Django took great pride in this, Ellington never really made any effort to integrate Django into the band, sticking him at the end of the shows to play a few solos virtually on his own, and no arrangements were written for him which Ellington could easily have done if he had chosen to. Also he wasn't allowed to play the guitar he usually played (a Selmer Modele Jazz, a guitar he made famous), but instead had to play a new amplified model. Going "electric" wasn't much appreciated by his fans or him. It's been said he returned to France with broken dreams, but continued to record and play. A quick few words about Selmer Modele Jazz guitars. They were the guitars he and the other members of the Hot Club of France used exclusively. They were the first commercially available guitars with a cutaway, had steel reinforced necks, and were/are considered by many to be the finest guitars ever produced. Django was one of the first people in France to appreciated the music of Charlie Parker and Doizzy Gillespie. When he first arrived in New York he sought them out, but unfortunately both of them were on tours of their own. in 1948 he gathered together a few Italian jazz players and recorded a record that was one of his most acclaimed. It was entitled Djangology and once again featured Stephane Grappelli on violin. Django had always found it difficult adjusting to modern life and upon returning to France he returned to the Gypsy life. He would show up at concerts without a guitar, or he'd just wander off to a park or a beach. He was well known by his band, fans, and managers to be unpredictable. Sometimes he would just skip sold out concerts entirely to "smell the dew". He still continued to record though and is considered to be one of the most advanced guitarists ever to play the instrument. Like Les Paul, he had a style that was unmistakably his alone. In 1951 he retired to Samois-sur-Seine, France, near Fontainebleau, living there for two or three years until when returning home on May 16, 1953, he collapsed from a brain hemorrhage just outside of his house. It was a full day before a doctor showed up and he was pronounced dead at the hospital in Fontainebleau. The following reads like a list of who's who in the genre of guitar players. Every one of them has expressed admiration for Reinhardt and referred to him as a major influence on them: Jimmy McCulloch, Julian Bream, Chet Atkins who placed Reinhardt #1 on a list of the 10 most influential guitarists of the 20th century (placing himself at #5), Carlos Santana, B. B.B. King, Tommy Emmanuel, Pierre Bensusan, Jerry Garcia, Trey Anastasio, Tony Iommi, Jimi Hendrix, Carl Barat, Synester Gates, Shawn Lane, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Derek Trucks, Mark Knopfler, Les Paul, Joe Pass, Peter Frampton, Denny Laine, Jeff Beck, Jon Larsen, Steve Howe, Charlie Christian, Frank Vignola, Barney Kessel, George Benson, Wes Montgomery, Martin Taylor, Tchavolo Schmitt, Willie Nelson, Jose Feliciano, Stochelo Rosenberg, Bireli Lagrene, John Jorgenson, Michael Angelo Batio, Richard Thompson, Robert Fripp and Jeff Martin. British guitarist Diz Disley plays in a style based on Reinhardt's and has collaborated with Stephane Grappelli several times. In 2009 Jose Feliciano composed an album entitled Djangoisms. Musicians have invoked his name in their own work and/or personal life, naming sons after him for instance. Jimi Hendrix named one of his bands the Band of Gypsys. A jazz trio in Quebec calls itself The Lost Fingers, and play music strongly influenced by his style. He has been the subject of songs, his music has been heard in numerous movies, and Woody Allen produced a spoof called Sweet and Lowdown based on a fictional American guitar player named Emmet Ray who was obssesed with Django and his music. There are very few musicians that have left behind a legacy such as Django Reinhardt's Ciao Jazz attracted me because in it I found a formal perfection and instrumental precision that I admire in classical music, but which popular music doesn't have. Django Reinhardt You definately intrigue me..Yes it is too bad we are geographically challenged.. Added: Sunday, October 4, 2009 7:11pm
Thank you for the kind and very flattering words..I guess I just don't want to be thought of as a Cougar for the reasons of a Cougar being someone who is almost stalker like..That is definitely not me...Im fun loving and flirtatious but not at all into stalking anyone let alone very young men..That is why I wanted to post my blog..
Thank you for reading it and commenting.. Goldie Added: Sunday, October 4, 2009 3:35pm
Many thanks for your comment re the Forum topic...always appreciated.
SLAINTE! Gr8 Did you see the other pics from Picardy that I posted under the other two Forums? Added: Sunday, August 30, 2009 4:14pm
Is it me, or are you lagging in the Blogging Dept?
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Thanks for the kind thoughts my friend, you made my day!
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Sweetie, anytime you want me to tickle you over and over, all ya gotta do is travel East...LOL Peace n Hugs, Deena Added: Sunday, February 22, 2009 2:40pm
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hey, skill. thanks for the comments on my blog. i appreciated the empathy. guess i'll run off & get drunk or something. see ya in the forums. -m Added: Thursday, February 12, 2009 5:53pm
Hi Skill...thanks for popping over and commenting... Appreciate the attempts to send me the theme from "Duel at Diablo", I know it's not the greatest Western ever made, but I like it and do have very fond memories of it! Thank you. Gr8 Added: Tuesday, February 3, 2009 1:56am
if you take a look at some of my earlier blogs the ratio is in there. If you become a paying member you get enough info to figure it out Good luck and remember it not the ratio that counts... Its if you find what you're looking for and for most of us.... it only takes one.
Added: Wednesday, January 7, 2009 7:30pm
Trust me, honey, you will be missed. You added class and character to the Forums! Added: Thursday, January 1, 2009 7:18pm
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