As usual, I was hanging out in chat the other day chatting in the main room, answering a private message here and there when one private "tweet" said that so and so was a little peeved that I had blocked her. Really? Peeved, well, to be honest I blocked her about 6 months ago, time to catch up. It frankly puzzles me as to why this person would be "peeved". Weren't you the one who mocked in a blog, an ad I used to have on my profile by saying (I'm paraphrasing) how could I call myself "honest" (I did say that in my ad) if I were married and my wife doesn't know I'm here?  Ok, I just ignored it but THEN, she had the childish idea to create another profile and email me the exact same thought she had blogged about. Well, next time you want to pretend to be someone you're not,, at least have the brains to change your hometown. Actually, it took me about 5 seconds, (I'm exaggerating, it was more like 3) to figure out what you had done and who you were so, I did something so out of character for me, and blocked you.

Unlike a lot of "pretenders" on this site, I have no problem letting people know I'm married. Those who know me and have taken the time to talk to me, know why I'm here. If there is such venom by some against married people being on this site, ignore us, or better yet petition to,ban us, and keep it singles only.

In closing, I wanted to write this little note to maybe get some people on here to lighten up, grow up, and at times, shut up. I 've been coming to this site for a year and a half, met some very nice people, those I don't click with, I ignore, and in one case, I blocked. Try it, you'll be a lot happier.

On a side note, if you have a second profile on here, why??? There is a word for behavior like that, it rhymes with "mathetic"  

But if we've never chatted, emailed, had sex, etc ... why would you want to friend me? If you saw me in public, would you walk up and say "let's be friend's" or would you say hi? I'm not a coin, or a baseball card to add to your collection, the "F" word actually means something to me, even if only online, so no offense, but I must decline.



Same with my webcam when I'm in the chat room. If we've never met, or even exchanged hello's, why would I let you peek at my cam? If you're interested in whats going on on the other side of the cam, say hi, get to know me a little, you may just make a good online friend and have some fun. I'm nice to everyone, until they give me reason(s) not to be. A little politeness goes a long way in my book, and, so if you see me around the site, say hi, you never know ...

P.S. YES, I'm married, and NO my wife doesn't know I'm here. I did ask her to join me online, and she refused. I told her i was going alone, not sure if she believed me, so, I go on the premise that this is my little secret.

No, not the 1978 hit song by the Who, but rather who are YOU?

Of the number of views of my profile this month, fully 25% are from "anonymous" Why hide? Do you think if I see that you've peeked, that I'm gonna think that, "hmmm, this woman wants me" and that I'll stalk you until you get so fed up that you have to take out a restraining order?? Au' contraire' If you peeked at my profile it was for one of 3 reasons ... 1. You liked my profile pic and decided to explore, 2. You entered a "keyword" in a search and there I was, or 3. You saw me in a chat room and checked my profile to see if I was worth saying hello to. If you didn't tickle me or email me, I assume there was no interest and wish you luck and will NOT bother you.

To me, perving anonymously is akin to grabbing a 20 ft. extension ladder and looking in my bedroom window, which I don't mind as long as you keep the laughter to a minimum. So, is it one woman who peeked 45 times? 15 women who peeked 3 times? 9 who looked 5? ... So ... I ask again ...who are you?? Are you my wife, sister(s)-in-law, neighbor, someone who used to work for me ... mom???

Why hide? I really am harmless, I don't bite, (I nibble) and I'm here to have fun. I hope you'll take off the mask and come out of the darkness, who knows, you may just make a friend ...

I hear things in chat like "all men show their cocks on cam", or "I don't watch cams because all the guys are creeps" well, I'm here to tell you we aren't all like that.

If you click on my cam, you'll see me smiling back at you accompanied by a friendly wave. I turn my cam on for one big reason and a whole bunch of "subreasons" I turn it on so that if you do want to see, you'll see that I look like my pic(s), that I'm a real person and pretty much harmless. I do it to set your mind at ease, that if you do approach me, that you have nothing to fear from me, I'm really a pretty nice guy. If you do click on my cam, I may be fully dressed or I may not, but, have no fear, my cam won't move until and unless you take a little time to chit-chat with me and only if other activities are mutually agreed upon, no surprises here. I like to flirt, tease, and play as much as anyone, but not until we've chatted for awhile.

I hope you'll take the time to get to know me and not lump me in with the leg-humpers, the lurkers, and the creeps we all know hang out in chat. Have a nice day and stop by and say hi sometime