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Female, 35 United States
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Altoona
Pennsylvania, USA 4,514 kms from you 35
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5' 11"
A little chubby
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Erotic chat/email, A discreet relationship, Phone Chat, Friends
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Hello, and thank you for taking the time to read my add.....i have a tendency to babble so if you have a short attention span...my apologies.
I'm here to meet people and chat first and foremost. I am married and a little on the cautious side (understandably so) I'm looking for discretion and like minded men/people...just to chat and swap stories/fantasies........and see where that goes. So if you see me on chat feel free to ask me anything(within limits...lol) Huh....I guess that wasn't too wordy after all!! Stay sexy -Elle 
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 Stand back.....I'm gonna BLOG!!!!
My experiences on SA.
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Confession.
Wednesday, April 24, 2013
(Takes deep breathe....realizes this is a highly personal blog....takes another deep breathe.....GO!!)
I know full well I don't need to explain myself or why I am on here (guilty conscience lately?--lol) but I am going to try my best. This is taking a lot of courage and a few glasses of wine but I really want to get this out.... Ok, I live in a sexless marriage....always have. That was hard to type-even more so hard to read. In the 12 plus years we have been married we have had sex maybe 100 times (no, I don't run a tally I just know 4 months or so go by at a clip). Fairly recently I have seen many articles on this phenonmenon (probably I am now seeking them out although, I have never noticed as many in the past...just an observation.) I pore over said articles...we talk openly about the situation...however, no matter what we try nothing gets even remotely resolved. I am not taking the "victim" role here...I am to blame as well. In my defense, you can only try so many times before you kind of just shut down. Medication to solve problem is very very costly and would have been just an attempt mind you, counseling was helpful, but didn't get us a quasi "lightbulb" moment. I have done what was asked of me to get things right in this area. Again, we communicate about it as well. I don't point fingers even at my most frustrating times...I do not believe in that. I am just very frustrated at this point. Most of the time I can role with it...I go along my days/weeks/months just fine. It is the other times where it punches me in the gut like a fist. Makes me feel like absolute shit about myself...self esteem crushing days...Which led me to joining this site and writing this blog . I touched on this in an earlier blog....maybe my second or third entry...kind of explaining why I am on here...feeble attempt mind you but I was new and scared to share this highly personal situation. Now I am at a crossroads...I am not a quitter and want to fix this but I'm not sure of the cost at this point. I have always had a very high sex drive/physical need and this get's more difficult to deal with as the years pass. It is also a touch on the taboo side to be the female partner with this problem. I wish this could be ok...at times I really resent my need for physical closeness. On the other hand I truly want him to be happy too. This sounds crass but maybe we just aren't each others sexual cup of tea...I don't know. Many people have commented in the copious "Sexless marriage" articles I have read just how "selfish" "evil" or "wrong" the unwilling abstinent partner is being. That, "They should know the puppy dog love stage of relationships is fleeting" ..etc... all valid points of which I am highly both physically and intellectually aware. I have done everything I can think of to fix this. I know sex isn't the do all be all of any relationship. It's just if you live in a sexless union for years...then lack of sex is a problem...a big deal breaking problem. In my situation we are not dealing with advanced age or infirment--that I would totally understand and would probably be one of the finger waggers. I am putting this all out here in hopes that others can relate, respond, advise, and hell, just plain old judge...I don't care at this point. There is a part of me that needs to know I am not alone and I am not evil and it will be alright... Sorry for the drama filled blog ...I really had to just get that out.. Much love and respect, -Elle Lost......
Thursday, October 25, 2012
In a sea of penises!!! hahahahaha....I bet you thought this was going to be morose!! I know full well the name of the site is Sexy Ads, but I still am baffled a bit about the forwardness of some members. I'm not sure why I am kicking this dead horse of a topic but it has been getting to me lately....
In my real life as well as online I really like to get to know people first...call me a prude but it is how I roll. I'm not trying to come across as bitchy or lording my sexuality over anyone...it's just that I kinda treat SA like Facebook but with an edge. An escape for me to share my innermost thoughts and not worry about judgement. To choose to be a bit naughty once I get to know someone...have various forms of fun. Having that been said, I get really annoyed when I am asked for my password right away...it irritates the shit out of me. I have blogs that address this very subject. I realize that people don't want to wade through my random musings and song lyrics postings so I will cut to the chase---It's my FIRST BLOG. I speak only for myself and as usual whomever I may offend is probably guilty. I hope this may help future new SA members...that amount of forwardness is generally....what's the word?....EWWWWWWWWWWW!!!! (that's it--lol) Ok kittens, I'm off my  !!XXX's and OOO's Elle Yoiu guys are the BEST!!!!!
Monday, October 15, 2012
Thank you all so so much for the Birthday wishes and cards!!! You are awesome and you made my day!!!
  More song lyrics to fit my state of mind....8)
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Amateur---Aimee Mann
I'm told the case is now closed So I can come to my senses But when the question is posed I'll have this meager defense... I was hoping that you'd know better than that I was hoping but you're an amateur I was hoping that you'd know better But I've been wrong before. Despite conclusions I drew There was a chance you'd surprise me And you'd be better than you 'Cause I'd have left otherwise... I was hoping that you'd know better than that I was hoping but you're an amateur I was hoping that you'd know better But I've been wrong before. So I wasn't thinking clearly So you didn't think at all I thought that was protocol. I was hoping that you'd know better than that I was hoping but you're an amateur I was hoping that you'd know better But I've been wrong before I was hoping that I was hoping but you're an amateur I was hoping that you'd know better But I've been wrong before Lurve this song!!!!
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Already Gone....Kelly Clarkson
Remember all the things we wanted Now all our memories, they're haunted We were always meant to say goodbye Even with our fists held high It never would have worked out right, yeah We were never meant for do or die I didn't want us to burn out I didn't come here to hurt you now I can't stop I want you to know That it doesn't matter Where we take this road But someone's gotta go And I want you to know You couldn't have loved me better But I want you to move on So I'm already gone Looking at you makes it harder But I know that you'll find another That doesn't always make you wanna cry It started with the perfect kiss then We could feel the poison set in "Perfect" couldn't keep this love alive You know that I love you so I love you enough to let you go I want you to know That it doesn't matter Where we take this road But someone's gotta go And I want you to know You couldn't have loved me better But I want you to move on So I'm already gone You can't make it feel right When you know that it's wrong   love those fine tits,love those heels,like too kiss and suck your fine toes, ur hotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt.
Added: Monday, August 20, 2012 7:13pm
 Saw this n thought of you, after earlier in chat lol  Added: Monday, July 23, 2012 8:14pm
 Thanks for the tickles back! I love to tickle you, hun! Hope you are good and I hope we meet soon! Take care, hun!Added: Monday, November 28, 2011 2:16pm
 Wants your sexy ass in the chat room mmmmmm xxx
Added: Thursday, October 27, 2011 2:38pm
 Simply perfect. Lovely pics that have been well composed. Definitely left me wanting more
 Added: Friday, April 22, 2011 12:36pm
 hi there sexy how u been hope u having a good week
 Added: Tuesday, April 19, 2011 6:19am
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