Well, originally I decided to be nosy and look at the ads to see if there was anyone in my area.  But the thing is that after 10 years my girlfriend&I don't really connect like we used to and I'm still pretty much raring to go so it's hard on me.  I guess, bearing that in mind, I had the thought that maybe some people nearby might contact me to meet up.  I'm just going crazy between the way things are with us and the way her 17 year-old daughter is behaving.  Honestly I want to have that much fun, if not more!  I think that we should, but I don't see it happening.  I'm not looking for any angels of mercy, just people who are interested in something like I am.