I am not here for your pleasure ......I am here for mine .... I am not going to try an impress you and be something I am not . I am whom I am because of life events and life's lessons learned....some the hard way others not so intense am first and foremost a mother and a grandmother... A sister and a daughter.....An aunt and a friend....I am passionate, sensual, witty and at times emotional......I am strong and I am weak.. I stand strong and I fall down.....tiss life.. I know tomorrow is promised to no one and know this first hand.... I know the and respect the boundries of marriage and will not cross them for a few brief encounters of physical pleasure .... I desire someone who will consume me with his intellect as the rest will follow...I don't need a man ....I want a man....A true blue down to earth humble man .....who enjoys the simplistic things in life and treasures the people around him and not the materialistic things.....I can have just as much fun if not more so by hiking on a rugged trail in the mountains or the beach as much as I could on a yacht( even tho I haven't been on one) I haven't missed a thing I am sure of it ..... Money doesn't impress me..Stability does..... Stamina doesn't impress me ...his love does .... I am not here for one night stands and cyber sex land.... Its not me ... I flirt and I tease when I please as I am single... I am who I am.nothing more nothing less...... Do not think for one second tho that I am not complex...........Cause I am ...And I will not change such.I am not seeking but I am looking......only time will tell how much longer I am to remain single.......in the meantime have fun and enjoy the laughs and the flashes..... I have been a member for at least 11 years here so I have made some awesome friendships and have met some wonderful people along the way.....Sexy Ads is a great site.....glad to have you here :) hugs and kisses.lets see who reads this !!!