Why is it that I cant find my connection? He's a kind, passionate, sensual man that misses his connection with life and love, intimacy and sexuality. He's craving laughter and affection and wants more than the NSA flings that most are looking for yet, because of uncontrolled circumstances in both of our lives, has to find comfort in the time that we do have to spend together-whether it be a few hours on a rainy afternoon making love and exploring fantasies and desires only thought about; a 'chance' meeting at a local home improvement store where we can shop for plants together before we part company to return to our other lives; a leisurely lunch on a restaurant patio; a rare and cherished weekend when we can both get away and spend the time as though we are never apart.

There are so many people posting and I have taken a chance and responded to a few and it always turns out the same: we chat, they want phone or cyber sex and that is not what I am interested in so it ends there **PLEASE NOTE: I really do appreciate all of you sexy people that want to engage me in a little online interaction-it just isn't for me. Please respect my wishes and not ask anyway.

IF you are out there, I am here-waiting patiently. I want to get to know you-just be very clean, DDF and KNOW that you are wanting, ready, and able to handle this type of relationship-REAL TIME.I'm submissive not necessarily looking for someone that is in the lifestyle but MUST have a kinky streak and active imagination. I'm not an online sub-BDSM is not a solo activity, sorry..Have a 'thing' for older, mature males!

Assplay. Simple enough. Lots of it. As often as possible. That and other things. Must be as serious about it as I am, and love to play as much as I do. Been asked several times what I mean-I am NOT giving, only receiving...