I KNEW that would get you lil' pervs attention!  Now that I have your attention, I would like to take this opportunity to discuss all of the recent changes that have been made to our beloved site(Duh, it's SexyAds!).

I have seen many members over the past day or so writing blogs about the recent changes made that impact NON PAYING members and their ability to view who has viewed them. Now, I know this might come as a shock to some of you, but guess what? This site costs ALOT of money to run! ALOT!  Why should the owners, Jayce and Maureen, have to foot the entire bill and work tirelessly to keep this site up and running just so that non members have everything afforded to them for FREE?

I understand that economic times are tough  people. Do you stop to think that these tough financial times might also be impacting the ability to keep this beloved site up and running ? Do you stop and think that while you are getting ALL the FREE goodies, that SOMEONE has to be paying for them? Guess what!? Maureen and Jayce are paying for them !

Over the 11 years I have been a member here I have voiced my concerns to Mom and Dad about the ability to keep this site up and running. I have told them numerous times I feel they give far too much free features away and if they continued to do so, no one would be willing to PAY for a VIP Membership. Why should they when they get soooo much for free already!?

For Mom and Dad, it's not JUST about making a buck. They have a genuine interest in each and every members well being .They care about their members and like to get to know them all on a personal level. They give tips, fix problems and are there when you need them most. They do this because they are genuinely nice people, not just because they want your money.

They have always taken an active role in every aspect of this site. You will see them in the chatrooms, in the forums and even commenting on YOUR profile or photos. Where else can you get that kind of interaction with site owners? If you catch them in chat, they will engage you in conversation. They will laugh with you and sometimes, they will cry with you. They go out of their way to make everyone at this site feel important, loved and welcomed. Where else are you going to get this ?

That being said, for those of you that are whining, bitching and complaining that Mom and Dad are taking away your free features.....GET THE FUCK OVER IT!  I understand...we ALL understand the financial hardships being dealt to everyone at this moment in time. Honestly though, do you think that your lack of income is more important than the next guys? Do you not stop and think that Mom and Dad need to make a living also? This is NOT a partime job for them ya' know! This IS their livelyhood! It's NOT a HOBBY! It's their sole source of income! Do you not realize that SexyAds USE to have a fairly good sized staff to help run this site? Do you not realize that they had to be laid off , so that the owners could still afford to keep this beloved site up and running? Do you not realize that Maureen and Jayce soley run every aspect of this site now themselves? Never getting a single day off from work. No vacation. No break.No sick day. They are IT! If they don't run the site, it crumbles and fades into the Internet abyss. Who wants that to happen?

I am pissed beyond belief that there are actually people putting them down for doing what we are ALL trying to do! Make a living in this world- hopefully doing something that means something to us and that we love.How dare anyone complain that your "rights" to see "who viewed you" were taken away!  If you are so interested in seeing who has viewed you, suck it up and buy a damn VIP membership! I am guessing that most of you complainers won't do it though, as it seems you are only happy when you have something to bitch about anyway!

Do you people not understand the costs involved to keep a site like this up and running? Do you not understand that they have kept this site going for so many years without advertising that  is basically spam.Do you not enjoy logging into SexyAds and knowing that you will be greeted with open arms and able to express yourselves in a friendly ,yet sexy atmosphere without fear of judgement?

I wish all you complainers would stop to think of someone other than yourselves for a moment. It's really NOT ALL ABOUT YOU! If you want to find love...or the best fuck of your life- why shouldn't YOU be the one paying for the chance to do so? Why should all of that financial burden fall onto the shoulders of Maureen and Jayce? It shouldn't! EVER!

NOTHING in this life is FREE! I feel Mom and Dad have been far too nice for far too long , at the detriment of their own pocketbook and I personally am glad to see that for once they are looking out for their own best interest. None of you complainers are looking out for them nor for anyone else. You are only interested in what you can get and get for free for yourselves.Shame on you!

Now, that being said. How's about all you damn whiners, bitchers and complainers get off your pity pots and EARN a VIP membership?! I have been running/advertising a VIP membership essay contest for the past few weeks. I was willing to help out my fellow SexyAds members by raffling off my prize in last months uniform contest...a 1 month VIP membership. I wanted to "give back" and since I do not need my prize, figured it would be nice to help someone out that might want to be a VIP for a month(yeah, I do now how to plug myself don't I?LOL).

So.....all you financially broke  and  cheap mo' fo's stop yer bitchin' and ENTER my CONTEST!! If you don't....then you have no one to blame except yourself.Right? Like I said...nothing in life is free, but if you put for some energy into something other than bitching....ya' just might be a VIP member .