I have been reading blogs about the changes to SA. I must say I am really surprised at all the negative things and I must say SHAME ON YOU FOR BEING MAD!!!
Most of the good things are FREE. blogs, chat, tickles, photo contests. Come on people what do you want everything for free? It don't even happen in real life so why do you think you are going to get everything here for free? You aren't.
Sexy Ads is a service for people, a business that Jayce and Maureen are trying to make some kind of a living at.
I am not a VIP member but I decided to try and go VIP this next month if I could, and before you say I got money let me tell you something, I am on a fixed disability income and that is it. I don't have any extra income coming in and since I am single there is no extra help every month for things. I gave up smoking and since I have a little extra money to do with whatever I want to it is going for a VIP membership.

In this world of modern technology and all the advantages of so called modern man, it amazes me that there are narrow minded people who like to poke jokes at big gals and big guys.
I am a big gal, no 2 ways about it and I stick up for others in my group along with the men to. I just find myself getting very upset and pissed off at guys that think we are a joke. Do they know me? NO! Do they want to know me? NO!
They don't care about our feelings or anything, do they have any friends that are big? I don't think it would because they aren't in the same class of people as they are.
 All they want is a good laugh at some one else's expense. How shallow and narrow minded you are.
To people like that I would like to say I pity you because you are never going to know some of the best people in the world because you have an attitude problem that you look down your nose at others that aren't like you.

 

I got this from a friend of mine and I wanted to share it here.

Recently,  in large French city, a poster featuring a young, thin and  tan woman appeared in the window of a gym.  It  said:

¨THIS SUMMER DO YOU WANT TO BE A MERMAID OR A  WHALE?¨

A middle aged woman, whose physical  characteristics did not match those of the woman on the  poster, responded publicly to the question posed by the gym.

To Whom It May Concern:

Whales are  always surrounded by friends (dolphins, sea lions, curious humans)..  They have an active sex life, they get  pregnant and have adorable baby whales.  They have a  wonderful time with dolphins stuffing themselves with  shrimp.  They play and swim in the seas, seeing  wonderful places like Patagonia, the Barren Sea and the  coral reefs of Polynesia.

Whales are wonderful singers and  have even recorded CDs.  They are incredible  creatures and virtually have no predators other than  humans.  They are loved, protected and admired by  almost everyone in the world.

Mermaids don't exist.  If they did exist, they would be lining up outside the offices of Argentinean psychoanalysts due to identity crisis.  Fish or human?  They don't have a sex  life because they kill men who get close to them not to  mention how could they have sex?  Therefore they don't have kids either.  Not to mention who wants to get close to a girl who  smells like a fish store?

The choice is perfectly  clear to me; I want to be a whale.

P.S. We are in  an age when media puts into our heads the idea that only skinny people are beautiful, but I prefer to enjoy an ice  cream with my kids, a good dinner with a man who makes me  shiver and a coffee with my friends.  With time we  gain weight because we accumulate so much information and wisdom in our heads that when there is no more room it distributes out to the rest of our bodies.  So we  aren't heavy, we are enormously cultured, educated and  happy.  Beginning today, when I look at my butt in the mirror I will think, ¨Good gosh, look how smart I  am.¨