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Male, 59 United States
New Jersey, USA
2,821 mi from you
A discreet relationship, Casual sex, Spanking
3 days ago
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Nov CD wants married Heavy Cummer
Men seeking TS/TV/CD
*FLASH* Since it seems not many out here are concerned with discretion, being disease free or having an ongoing trusted sexual relationship, this addresses you. To answer SO MANY of your e-mails that assume I'll be going down on you that afternoon without any fears, this is for you. If that is what you truly want, then I will be happy to accomodate you with a condom covered blowjob or handjob. What do you prefer, jump in your car and suck you off, bathroom in a department store?? Up to you. For those that are a touch more serious, read below and maybe we can have some real fun.**
Please contact me only if you are: serious, not into swapping eternal e-mails, CLEAN, disease free, SANE and need to be serviced. I am a regular guy, with a burning fantasy to suck cock and eat cum. I've recently discovered how wearing panties / thigh-highs / pantyhose makes it more intense. Want to feel feminine, while I worship and adore your cock. I am married, prefer you to be also. I will consider a single that is looking for a first time bi experience.
I have no desire to have a 'relationship' (other than sexual), nor do I wish to alter my home life in any way. Ultimately, I'd like to develop an ongoing sex only type of relationship. My intention is not to be promiscuous and experiment with numerous partners, I would like to find someone to build an eventual ongoing discreet sexual relationship for our mutual pleasure. Be disease free and able to prove it somehow, it's for both our sakes.
Please include a photo should I ask, it's a little tiring (and insulting) to hear someone in this day and age say they don't know how to upload a pic. My preference is an average/little chubby or somewhat athletic build, not too tall (since I'm not a large guy), prefer 6'1" and under...but that's not etched in stone. Sane, serious and clean/disease free weighs heavier than looks. So if your desire is to find someone to passionately and dutifully service you, let's talk. Now that I have been as articulate as possible in my ad, please...be serious, no pic seekers. Difficult to find anyone normal out here..Well...I AM..you be too.
Wanted: Straight married guy for your pleasure
Men seeking men
Would love to find a married straight guy that's just looking for a little 'release'. I am married, bi-curious with a burning desire to service another guy orally. Not looking to experiment with a bunch of different guys, want to find one guy I can service on a regular basis. Could work out nicely...discretion and cleanliness/disease free is of the UTMOST....but think of this..I am straight acting, normal guy appearance...could easily get away with meetings even with your wife around! I could stop by as a buddy, maybe go to the garage to check out the car, and service you there...or maybe the TV room downstairs to watch the game and service you there....possibilities?
Remember that an ad ....
Reading an option or just looking at the pretty pictures
Doesn't seem to me that anyone actually takes the time to read what you've taken the time to carefully compose in your ad.
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Where are these people??
Saturday, October 1, 2011
You know, I read these testimonials about how great SA has been, how many people they've met etc..etc. This can't be serious. Don't get me wrong, I think SA is a great site, but it seems the same people have been around forever. The same group repeatedly sends tickles, and no one actually ever gets serious about actually meeting. Now I know we'll have the usual clique collection of supporters that give all the usual cliche answers, but this place has unfortunately gone quite stagnant. I believe the advent of changing many features to pay only has severely hurt. I know full well that getting the hook in is absolutely essential for turning the membership sale, and I can't disagree with trying to keep $$$ flowing. However, maybe some short term enticements would get some fresh blood around here. I have not met anyone for over a year and regardless, nothing that materialized anyway. Add that in to the usual collection of nuts, picture seekers and of course the ever popular, let's exchange 9 e-mails and I'll stop contacting group and you have a pretty frustrating experience out here.
Here we go again!
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Well, here we are , months after my last blog post and still in EXACTLY the same boat. The collection of lunatics, bullshitters, long distance ticklers and players continues. For those reading this and thinking I'm complaining, I challenge you to read my ad/bio and tell me where I've gone wrong. I just couldn't be more articulate in my view, yet they just keep coming. I can only imagine what the women go through.
For starters, I seem to have a core group that signs on and is compelled to tickle me. Now why should I mind a tickle, well, I don't....however, when you have several people that are waaaay out of your area, that have never had e-mail contact with you (despite the VIP status), it gets very annoying. I certainly don't mind the occasional tickles, nice to see interest, but what the hell. Then we have the "I'm feeling really horny at this moment" types. Those are the ones that size up your ad, ARE relatively close, seem to get into it after a few e-mail exchanges and then fade into oblivion. These are in my opinion, pic seekers/self gratifiers. They love to come out here and fantasize, but truly have no intention of realizing their fantasies....so they communicate with someone like yours truly, and go back to their lives until the next fantasy wave comes over them. Then we have those that have check your bio, see all the pretty pictures and e-mail without so much as reading ONE word of your ad. This one pisses me off the most because I lay everything possible out in my ad to avoid just this type of bullshit. Very annoying to get e-mails that seek the opposite of what you've written.
I'm hoping this is the last time I have to rant...so let's articulate for the thousandth and hopefully the last time. Bear in mind, my idea of tickles is merely a prerequisite, shows interest and says we're on the same page, hopefully we can discuss it. PLEASE, stop tickling me repeatedly if you either have no intention of at least discussing possibilities via e-mail, or you're 900 miles away. Rather you leave a profile/pic comment, this way you can get your little fantasy out of your system, but you don't have to bug me with a tickle. PLEASE, take the time to read my ad, if your desires do not match what I've written, chances are, we're not going to match up very well. PLEASE, if you're harboring a fantasy you know in your heart you don't have the balls to realize, then just look at all the pretty pictures, maybe make a comment if that helps you...and move on to the next person.
I'm honestly at a loss and actually concerned with the nature of people. Does no one read any more??, does no one have ANY concern for anything but their own desires?? I honestly don't know what the hell it is, but I don't think I'm asking too much, especially since I've taken the time to create an ad that doesn't leave much question. This is a fantastic site, I hate to see so many lunatics out there. As always, I remain hopeful that ONE normal person out there will finally connect.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Wouldn't it be wonderful to actually blog up how I made a great contact, everything worked out and I have an ongoing sex partner. But unfortunately, I find myself in a position of frustration as usual. After a few years out here, I remain unsuccessful, almost impossible to believe, but true. Regardless of an in-depth, well articulated ad, no one actually seems to read it. I was verbose in my ad for a reason, to cut out all the BS and try to hone in on exactly what I'm looking for to avoid the: one line e-mails....the promising e-mails that just stop with no reason or explanation.....the repeated daily tickles from the same people over and over and over that are 9 million miles away....the repeated e-mails from 9 million miles away...and of course the ever popular e-mails that want the opposite from what I desire.
Sorry for the frustration, but...it's FRUSTRATING. PLEASE, if anyone actually reads anymore, adhere to the following: DO NOT e-mail me if in a moment of fantasy you were compelled to write, but are too skittish to think of ever meeting, it's a waste of my time and yours. DO NOT tickle me on a daily basis, it's annoying and repetitive and makes you appear a bit on the crazy side, especially if you are WAY out of my area and there is no possibility of meeting. DO NOT exchange 7 or 8 e-mails with me if you eventually have no intention of setting up a meeting to check compatibility and then completely stop communicating, have the courtesy at least to send an e-mail that for whatever reasons you are bowing out. For the lunatics that are constanly compelled to send worthless tickles or one line e-mails, feel free to post pic or bio comments...much less aggravating for me and you can still get the thrill you seek.
I am truly at a loss as to why this still continues regardless of the time and effort I put into my ad/bio/fantasy, to be as up front, and give as much info as possible as to what I seek. This is a GREAT site all in all, don't get me wrong, but you'd unfortunately have to be Nostradamus to sift out the lunatics, pic seekers and BS'ers from being out here. My final plea, PLEASE read my ad and respond accordingly based on what I've stated above. Good luck to all in your search.
Read the ad please!
Friday, May 30, 2008
Regardless of being as thorough as possible in your ad, it seems no one actually takes the time to read it. The only responses I seem to get are for more pics/password or to meet for immediate sex. Don't get me wrong, the sex is the bottom line, and I'm not interested in corresponding for a solid month, but take the time to read the ad before making the absurd requests. For the most part it seems, these repondents are basically looking for jerk-off fodder, once they've sat in front of their computer and manually relieved themselves, you never hear from them again. Who would have thought it would be this hard to find one SANE, clean and discreet person to let off some steam with?
I loved your stories. They made me hard. Can I be next?
Added: Tuesday, August 4, 2009 11:37am
While I can't view all of your photos, even the thumbnails look HOT! :)
Added: Friday, July 3, 2009 6:13am
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