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Illinois, USA
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I am a confident, intelligent, mature ( what a great euphonism for an old f*ck LOL ) man who most people say is sexy and attractive... but that of course is completely subjective. I am looking for A woman to live out our lives together. Someone who shares a mutual attraction with me physically, emotionally and spiritually. Basically, I want ONE woman who will be my lover, best friend, soulmate and hopefully spouse.
I do consider myself dominant but most likely not the way most people think of dominance. I have found that the true dom / sub relationship is one built on mutual trust and mutual respect. A true dom never forces you to give ANY part of yourself to him, but rather you should give ALL of yourself because of your overwhelming desire to do so. That overwhelming feeling should stem from the loving and giving you feel coming TO you, not from you. Once you have that feeling... then and only then should you trust someone with your entire being.
You will trust that even at your most vulnerable, be it physical ie. your hands tied and eyes blindfolded... or the emotional vulnerability with having submitted your soul to me, you must trust that I would never take advantage of that vulnerability or hurt you in any way..well perhaps the good ways ;~)
Conversely as a dom.. I must trust myself that I can accept and handle the responsibility of the incredible gift you have bestowed upon me... yourself. I must also be able to trust you.
If this sounds like a relationship you've yearned for, drop me a line. Hopefully we can meet, like each other and be physically attracted to each other.
If not, God bless and I wish you peace and happiness.
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It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain! I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you're telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty every day, and if you can source your life from God's presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes"! It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after a night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for the children. It doesn't interest me who you are, or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments
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I'm not sayin' ....
Thursday, May 19, 2016
I'm just sayin' my mailbox is WIIIIIDE open !  ;~)

Help celebrate our national holiday !


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Google it if you need to ...
Tuesday, August 18, 2015
The bartender says " we don't serve HIS kind in here".
A proton, an electron and a neutrino walk into a bar ...
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Quote du jour
Tuesday, July 7, 2015
" There are three things we should all do every day. # 1  We should laugh. #2 We should think. And # 3, we should have our emotions driven to tears,  You laugh, you think and you cry... that's a heck of a day."

Jim Valvano, in his last weeks battling cancer.
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Mermaids and X-rated movies
Thursday, July 2, 2015
Do you know why the mermaid started wearing seashells?
She outgrew her B shells

Did you hear of the new X-rated murder mystery?
They all did it in the end.
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Beer nuts and more....
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
Do you know the difference between beer nuts and deer nuts?

Beer nuts are $ 2.50 / bag
deer nuts are under a buck.

What did Momma Bullet say to Poppa Bullet?
I think we're gonna have a beebee.
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