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OK guys, I'm a post-op transsexual. That all you need to know.
Love me without fear
Trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding
Want me without restrictions
Accept me without change
Desire me without inhibitions
For a love so free....Will never fly away.
Maybe there is a message here...
One day a woman's husband died, and on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of their bedroom, the wife was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't "anymore." No more hugs, no more special moments to celebrate together, no more no more phone calls just to chat, no more "just on minute." Sometimes what we care about the most gets all used used up and goes away, never to return before we can say goodbye, say "I love you."
So while we have it, it's best we love it, care for it, fix it when it's broken and heal it when it's sick. This is true for marriage....and old cars... and children with bad report cards, and dogs with bad hips, an aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because the are worth it, because we are worth it.
Some things we keep---like best friends who move away or a sister-in-law after divorce. There are just some things that make us happy, no matter what.
Life is important, like people we know who are special...and so, we keep them close!
Suppose one morning you never wake up, do all your friends know you love them?
I was thinking...I could die today, tomorrow, or next week, and I wondered if I had any wounds needing to be healed, friendships that needed rekindling or three words needing to be said.
Let everyone of your friends know you love them. Even if you think they don't love you back, you would be amazed at what those three little words and a smile can do. and just in case I'm gone tomorrow. I LOVE YA!!!
Live today because tomorrow is no promised.... Tammi
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Wednesday, December 1, 2010
So if you go out on a first date with someone and things seem to go
really well, but he/she does not ask you out for a second date, you need to
understand that it's not about you. He/she simply didn't feel that chemistry
with you. He/she was actually doing you a favor by not leading you on and
taking you down a path down which you did not need to go.
is one of the best date tips I can give to all of you who agonize over
why a guy/girl does not call you for a second date: The next time you go out
on a first date, stop re-evaluating all of the things you did.
yourself these questions: Did I have good conversation with him/her? Was I
positive in my conversation? Did I share things about myself? Did I
listen to him/her and ask him/her questions? Was there no negativity in my
If you answered "yes" to all those questions, then don't
even think for a second about what you did and whether you might have
done anything wrong. You did everything you could do from your side. Why
was there no second date? No chemistry... pure and simple.(And for the girls,
it could be that your forgetting to putout on the first
Whatever you give a woman
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she will
give you a baby. Give her a house, she will give you a home. Give her
groceries she will give you a meal. Give her a smile, she will give you
her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what she is given. So...if you
......give her crap be ready t...o receive a ton of shit...!
the art of tease
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Does sex sometimes lose its excitement when sex
becomes same old same old? One of the biggest complaints amongst my
friends is that sex isn't exciting any more. Sure, most have been
married more than 25 years to the same man but they all realize that
they are as much to blame for the situation as their husband or
One of the women recently said that after
so many years she'd lost the art of the tease. I asked her to explain
what she meant by that and here's how I interpreted what she had to
Back when we were young and
madly in love I would spend time before every date coming up with
different ways to turn him on. I would come up with jokes or sexy
lingerie or costumes just to give him a jolt in the wedding tackle. It
worked every time too. Sometimes it would only be that I said I wasn't
wearing panties or we'd undress and I'd be standing there with pasties
over my nipples. I got pretty good at twirling the tassels.
Being young I had a great
sense of my own body. I was on the slender side, fit and proud of the
way I looked naked. Now that I'm well over 50 and gravity has dropped
most bits from my chin on down I don't feel that confident. My husband
tells me that I'm just as desirable as I ever was but you know, I just
don't feel it inside. I wish I was tight everywhere instead of floppy.
Who likes floppy tits? My self esteem isn't rock bottom but it's
certainly headed there.
I was quite surprised at this because to me she's
really attractive, seems really confident and always has a smile and a
kind word for everyone. I told her we needed to work together to come
up with a way to get her inner tease back in working shape. We talked
about it and we came up with a few things we should try. (I don't think
I ever got the art of tease fully working but I was keen to try.)
- Morning reverse strip tease. Yeah, I know you're
thinking reverse isn't quite as exciting but remember we're talking
about teasing and that doesn't always result in instant sex. The idea
is for the sexual tension to simmer all day. So after your shower, make
sure that you catch his attention as you turn away from him and bend
over to slowly pull up your panties. Then face him and slowly and
carefully place your breasts in your bra. Get in a bit of eye contact
and have the mindset that sends off the message, "I'm hot and you know
you want me."
- Call him at work. Don't say anything other
than, "I forgot to tell you when I was watching you get dressed, you
have the best ass on any man in town." Then say I love you and hang up.
The simmering sexual tension will rise to a slow boil.
silent. Guys always make the stereotypical comment that women talk too
much so work on that premise. When you're alone and if you have kids
they're in bed, tell him that you don't want any words. Every
communication must be with touch.
That's all we came up with so far but I was waiting for her to suggest burlesque fans and costumes. Maybe next time.
Frequent Sex - It's Good For You@
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Frequent Sex - It's Good For You@
Most people enjoy a good sex life because sex brings
them heaps of pleasure. Not that you'd need any other reason to hop in
the sack more frequently, but there are substantial benefits for doing
the horizontal rhumba more often. It seems that enjoying sex regularly
can keep you in better shape physically and put you in a better mood as
well because of the stress reducing endorphins released during sexual
Sex works out your abdomen, buttock and back muscles and it's a good
aerobic exercise for your heart. You might even lose some weight!
For women it gives the vagina a real workout and with this part of your
body it's use it or lose it, baby. Having sex twice a week or more can
keep your vagina toned and tight for a great time in the sack. Now
really, who wants to have sex when it feels like you're tossing a
sausage down a hallway? Poorly conditioned muscles lead to needing to
wee every time you cough (gross) or painful sex.
Men, increased ejaculation may benefit your prostate gland and may even
cut your risk of prostate cancer. Men who have regular sex are also
more confident in every area of their lives.
The health benefits of sex coupled with the
incredible pleasure that we get from sex should have you hopping in the
bed right now! The more sex you have the happier and more lively you'll
feel. That will probably make you want more sex - which is great. Make
sure you save time to read my blog though because I might find
something else you need to know.
Believe it or not..but research it and maybe you'll decide
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Have you ever heard of Laminin? Me neither. The scientists say its in
the family of proteins that act as the glue that hold the tissues of
our bodies together. Each of the billions of cells we are made of are
held tightly together by these cellular adhesives molecules. Laminin is
vital for the maintenance and survival of our tissue. Defective
Laminins can cause all kinds of problems, desease and even death. When
you look at a picture of Laminin, it looks just like a cross! I always
knew that God had quite the sence of humor. The very stuff that holds
us all together is seen in the form of a cross, the universal symbol of
Jesus. Coincidence? Hummmmm..... The Bible says (Colossians 1:16) " By
Jesus all things were created: things in Heaven and on earth, visible
and invisible. All things were created by Him and for Him. It is His
power that holds everything together. Wow! Jesus is the "Laminin" of
the universe! Is it just me, or do you also sence that the world seems
to becoming unglued? Have you also noticed that our world is rushing to
remove all Christian references from the public domain? Now thats a
troubling thought, But Jesus gives us Hope. Do not let your Hearts be
troubled. You believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house
there are many Mansions. I am going to prepare one for you. And when I
do, I will back and take you there to be with me. You know the way to
that place where I'm going (John 14:2-4) Do you know the way? Have you
made your reservations?
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