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Is there a guy out there locally who would enjoy just lying back and being orally pleasured and then when he wants more, he bends me over and gives me all he has to offer??? Does this guy exist???
40 year old bi guy, short and stocky, interested in finding like minded bi guy between 35 and 55 for friendship, open minded and uninhibited fun.
Down to earth, great sense of humor, with an open mind. Basically a bottom but can be versatile with the right guy.
Enjoy sports, ATVing, going to the gun range, fishing, having a drink with a friend or just relaxing and having some good man 2 man fun.
I work an evening shift til about 12am and can be available most days til I leave for work which is about 2pm or all day or evening on days I'm off.
Don't hesitate to drop me a note and let's talk about it. I'm your just a normal guy who loves some fun with a good friend. Age, race and ethnicity is unimportant.
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Bi guy looking for an open minded lady for fun
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40 year old bi guy, short and stocky, with an open mind interested in meeting a lady who is also open minded for some uninhibited fun.
I'm down to earth with a great sense of humor. Lots to offer the right person who has an interest. A swing partner who would enjoy meeting other people for fun and friendship. I enjoy watching, joining and helping.
Age, race, ethnicity and sexual desires unimportant. Think you have an interest? Want to know more? Don't hesitate, drop me a note and let's see where it leads. Enjoy getting out, going to meet and greets with others.
Hope to hear from you.
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Email there such a thing anymore?
Saturday, December 1, 2007

Why is it when someone goes the time and effort to contact someone else, there isn't even enough common courtesy to return a message even if it's saying "thanks but no thanks"?

I've met alot of people, good and bad, in this lifestyle. I can see how easily frustrated people can become because people don't even have the respect to answer a simple email. In a society where people who have trouble with bill collectors and don't answer their phone calls, I would think with email being much more anonymous, you would at least take the 30 seconds it takes to say "sorry but I don't have an interest".

By at least answering the email, you show you have class and know how to do the right thing. Not answering is the easy way out and shows you are shallow.

In this lifestyle, people expect respect and kindness. So let's show a little of both when we receive emails from people we don't have compatibility with. Let's at least say "no thanks"...

Have a Happy and Save Swinging Holiday!!!

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Single/Married men in the Swinging Lifestyle...
Saturday, December 1, 2007

Why is the single or married male so frowned upon in the swinging lifestyle??? Why are we treated like lepers? Why are the single/married women not treated the same?

These are questions I've been asking myself for quite along time and I've come to my own conclusions about why. Ask 100 women if she would object to having to males please her in every way possible and I guarantee you that at least 80% wouldn't object at all! But if you ask the husbands of those women, I bet you they have objections to it.

Most men have jealousy issues that prevent themselves from enjoying more in life. A few guys I've asked about this have even expressed that they do have fears in the back of their minds that relate to;

1. What if she enjoys him more than me?

2. Will she start straying if she enjoys having more than one man?

Men also worry about male to male contact during a MFM or MFMF scene. Why in the world would it matter if there was "accidental" contact between men who are both pleasing the same woman? It doesn't make you gay if you accidentally touch someone of the same sex. Well maybe it does if you like and leave your wife for him, but that doesn't happen often I'm sure.

To be in the swinging lifestyle, you have to keep an open mind. Yeah you could always just stick with meeting other couples all the time and showing how shallow you could be or you could be open to more and have much more fun!

Have a Happy and Safe Swinging Holidays!!!

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To Bi or not to Bi...Is that really the question?
Saturday, December 1, 2007

I've been bi since I was 15 years old. Now at 40 years old, I'm wondering if there really any advantages to being bi?

I have to admit, being bi has allowed me to enjoy other fun meetings and adventures that I wouldn't have been allowed to enjoy if I was "straight". I've met some nice people who I've enjoyed their company and the fun we've had. There are also some couples out there who do enjoy adding a bi male as a third.

Why is people widely accept a bi female but not a bi male? For a woman to enjoy another woman she is considered bi but when a man finds he enjoys men as well as other men he is automatically assumed to be gay. Now I don't have anything against gay people, I have some gay friends myself that I've known for years. But once you tell someone or advertise on these sites that you are bi, you are shunned by "most" people.

To be quite honest, I think you are all missing out. I'm not trying to convert the world here to my way of thought here. I'm simply saying that you have just as many options being open to a bi male as you do adding a bi female to your fun. I bet if you asked alot of women out there, you'd even find that they think that seeing two men turns them on just as much as we men enjoy seeing to females together. 

You'd be quite surprised how many "closet bisexuals" there are out there. I myself being one of them because of society and their labels.

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