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Okay, so this is the deal. I am married, yes! I'm not looking for her replacement. She just doesn't see things like I do. Go figure! I think that there's few things off limits sexually! She's all about one position with the lights off! Puritan is how I would describe her. I have way too much passion for that. I feel like I'm drowning in it! I need to pour some..(a lot) into someone!!!...If that sounds like something you would be interested in well then I would like to hear from you. I won't risk her detecting any of this. Not sure where to go from here. Suggestions? By the way...the name has to do with the fact that I'm in computers.
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Thursday, September 11, 2008

Okay so I'm new to this whole thing but I think I have a pretty good idea of what the men/women who use this site are looking for. Most have an issue they wish to resolve, fullfillment. For a variety of reasons they feel that there is something lacking in their present circumstance. I see several types of people on here trying to address this:

1. Tentative:  These people are on here exploring their options but not really commited to solving their problem. They're not sure they will really find someone willing to invest the time or effort in developing the trust and respect needed for a serious solution. They usually don't know how to comminicate what it is that they are looking for. Risk taking is not in their make up, however if the right person comes along they can experience what they want. All they need to do is take a small chance. They are usually overlooked by the more seasoned members and are left to flounder around until they find someone or a couple who have the patience to bring them along in the process.

2. Confident: These people know what they want and aren't affraid to ask for it. They really don't want to put up with the bullshit of the "desparate" (another group of people on here). Contacting these people is challenging, especially for someone who's sincere but new to the scene. Sometimes they too should take a chance on the new person, they just might be surprised.

3. Desparate: Ahh, these people really are annoying but I feel sad for them. So wrapped up in their quest to feed their urges they lose sight of the other benefits to a site like this. With all the various options available (chat, erotic stories, erotic email) it's a shame they can't focus on other ways to derive pleasure except to try and overpower someone with a blizt of attention. The effects of this on this online community as a whole is detrimental to people actually succeeding in find what they are looking for.

Maybe SexyAds should open a seperate site for the sexually desparate. This would solve two problems:

1. It would free the other users from worrying about the people who attempt to contact them. Sincerity would be the norm.

2. It would eliminate for the desparate person the chore of getting through 15,000 attempts to find another desparate person.

To this I would say thank you SexyAds See ya. Problem solved, let me meet people who recognize my sincerity and move to establishing strong trust and meet eachother's needs. By the way, if you're interested in reading a sample of my writing check out the erotic story called "Software Install" I look forward to anyone's veiws on this subject


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