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Hi ya.
Gentle considerate married with teenage children man.
well there was a bit about Wanting uninhibited discreet encounters.
But after being here for only a short time I have changed my way of thinking.I've read many ads of various people and they are so interesting,I want to get to know people.Let you get to know me.There's so much I've learned about myself and even more I want to ask.
I tried the chat rooms,But there to fast for me.I can,t keep up with the typing.
And with out spell checker ,you wont understand a word I write.
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Men seeking Friends
Can you accept a man who dresses .In skirts, pantyhose and blouses
Who likes to clean and be clean.Who loves to do the we things,like breakfast in bed,a cup of coffee,cuddles while you watch tv.Who loves showing the softer side of himself just for you.
Would it be differcult to sleep with him while wearing a sexy neglgie.
How would you react being intimate.
I would love to know your thoughts on this.

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Out of the shell
Been looking around fow awhile now.And hay its not as daunting as I first thought.I've even managed to make two new friends.Sometimes it takes me awhile, but when I get there it'll all be worth it.
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Married With Children
Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Married With Children

Ok so what does that mean to me and you.

To me it means that once up on a time not that long ago,
I was, and still am in love with the most beautiful woman I know.
I made a commitment to her for better or worse till death us do part.
We have  had some great times together,the most beautiful and important ,being the births of our two children.Daughter 18 and son 16.
We've been together now from the age of 13,Yes 13 years old .I first noticed her at 11,but never had the courage to speak to her. I can vividly remember that first moment we spoke,my heart nearly jumped out of my chest
Now 34 years on and I still feel the same now as I did then.
So why The F..K Am I Here, you ask
Believe me so do I,every day

Time to open the door.

From an early age,maybe 9 or 10 I used to like dressing up in my sisters clothes. Why, who really knows. But I did and I enjoyed it.
As I got older it seemed to come and go ,this desire to dress.
In my mid to late teens the desire returned. At the time I was living alone,which made it possible for me to dress fully when at home.
And I did love every minuet of it. I often wondered why,is it sexually driven,because I would get so aroused and masturbate. Once the act of masturbation was over I would feel so guilty that I would strip of my clothes and shower.
In doing so instil the idea that what I was doing is wrong and sick. Made it feel dirty.
One day while visiting my future wife found my girly clothes. So I had to confess that I like wearing woman's knickers and dresses. Not something a woman likes to here about the man she though she new. So a choice had to be made and I chose her.
Over the next 27 years the urge came and went, I managed to keep it secret and eventually bury it,until now. 6 months ago she had a spring clean of all her old clothes which  she  left in my car to dump. At that same time sex was non existent.
So one thing led to another and yes I kept the ones that sexually aroused me and started wearing again. And she found them. My Dirty Little Secret as she called it was back.

To make things worse,our children are teenagers now. What would they think of there farther the queer. yes I had made one hell of a big mistake that will hurt them for the rest of there lives if they ever found out.

So we did sit down and discuss it and agreed I see a shrink/ phychiatrist

But that's not how I came to be here. I found this site while looking at a site for Cross Dressers and those involved with us to find some help.

I have been seeing the psychiatrist for 4 months now,and things seem to be ok with her.but not me.So I told her about me surfing the net for information and answers,and she thought it is a great idea.

In all these years I can truthfuly say I have never slept with another woman or man.That was a promise I made to myself,that I have honnered till now.

But the best thing I have found,is right here at Sexy Ads.

I Am Not Alone

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Friday, April 24, 2009

Dawn Service

The Dawn Service is one of the most popular observances of ANZAC Day. It is timed to coincide with the initial landings at Gallipoli on 25 April 1915.
The time is also poignant for veterans who recall the routine dawn “stand-to” of their war service.
The darkness breaking into sunrise adds to the symbolism of the occasion and makes for an emotional experience.

A typical observance includes a parade, the sounding of Last Post and Reveille,

    a minute's silence,

 the ANZAC Dedication, and Laurence Binyon's famous lines:

They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old;
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.

Anzac Day marks the anniversary of the first major military action fought by Australian and New Zealand forces during the First World War.
The acronym ANZAC stands for Australian and New Zealand Army Corps, whose soldiers were known as Anzacs.
Anzac Day remains one of the most important national occasions of both Australia and New Zealand.
This is a rare instance of two sovereign countries not only sharing the same national day, but making reference to both countries in its name.

===The Gallipoli campaign===

When war broke out in 1914, Australia had been a Federal Commonwealth for only thirteen years.
In 1915, Australian and New Zealand soldiers formed part of an Allied expedition that set out to capture the Gallipoli Peninsula to open the way to the Black Sea for the Allies of World War I navies. The objective was to capture Istanbul, capital of the Ottoman Empire and an ally of the German Empire.
The ANZAC force landed at Gallipoli on 25 April, meeting fierce resistance from the Turkish Army commanded by Mustafa Kemal Atatürk .
What had been planned as a bold strike to knock Turkey out of the war quickly became a stale-mate, and the campaign dragged on for eight months.
At the end of 1915, the Allied forces were evacuated after both sides had suffered heavy casualties and endured great hardships. Over 8,000 Australian and 2,700 New Zealand soldiers died.
News of the landing at Gallipoli made a profound impact on Australians and New Zealanders at home and 25 April quickly became the day on which they remembered the sacrifice of those who had died in war.

Though the Gallipoli campaign failed in its military objectives of capturing Istanbul and knocking Turkey out of the war, the Australian and New Zealand troops' actions during the campaign bequeathed an intangible but powerful legacy.
The creation of what became known as an "Anzac legend" became an important part of the national identity in both countries.
This shaped the ways their citizens viewed both their past and their future.


They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old;
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.


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Trust Versas Friends
Sunday, April 19, 2009
99 % of my friends here on SA I know I will never get to meet.Now thats a real Bugger.
So why make friends.
Hope,that one day it will happen.Just becuse you can't touch them does not make them any less a friend than the ones you grew up with.In many ways they are more of a friend.We share our most intimate details with them,Our most deepest secrets.Lets face it some of us have some very well hidden secrets.
Why do we share these most sacred details of ourselfs.
We /I want to trust ,need to trust whom ever I come into contact with here.And they need to trust Me.
To most of us ,we are looking for some one who can relate to our special situation,understand us and if required offer advice.
To all My friends here ,You are not just a name in my friends list.You are all very special to me.I will chat with you one day soon,or I will just pop in and say Hi Ya.

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Not out,but the door is ajar
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Nudged into action again.
Meeting new people and making friends all over the place now.
I'm even getting more confidant in the chat rooms.
Sexyads for me is a god send,I've learned so much about myself than any shirink could even teach me.
Its a place that is safe,you can be who you are without the fear of  rejection or ridicule thrown back in your face.People (the ones I 've spoken with)are more  open,understanding of each other.No matter what,who or how we are,were all looking and wanting something better in this life.
Its our world to escape to and be self indulged with our own special happyness.
And yes if I'm one that is lucky enough to find what it is I seek(although its like being 6 years old in the biggest lollie shop in the world.So many wonderful treats .We do you start) I will be forever greatful to Sexyads and all those who call it home.
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Thanks to all new and future friends
Monday, March 23, 2009
Further down the track now and makeing friends all over the place.
Thank you all for accepting me.
I'm thinking I'll put up some pics soon. 
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Thanks for the tickle
Added: Monday, July 9, 2012 7:53pm
Thanks! And the same to you, too ...  
Added: Wednesday, June 24, 2009 11:16pm
Hi there, thanks for your comment. Yes, it indeed is nice to see another kiwi here.... Have you had any success from this site? I've had none, so far.... But hoping! 
Added: Tuesday, June 23, 2009 11:40pm
In my experience, being able to express yourself fully, is just a matter of practice, and despite what you have said, you do have some degree of eloquence.  Just keep making comments and writing your blog and you will soon find yourself spilling your guts like the rest of us.  As for what you said about education, most good writers and thinkers don't have bugger all.  Which in my opinion works in thier favour.  For the record, i dropped out in the fifth form.
Added: Monday, May 11, 2009 10:15pm
I just love your profile...Love the way you think...the way you feel...such an interesting and inteligent gentleman....Kisses!! 
Added: Monday, May 4, 2009 11:15pm
thanks for the comments ,
Added: Saturday, May 2, 2009 7:16am
Thanks for the comment.  I've seen your postings on the forum and a few comments you've made.  We live up in the Bay of Islands but Jayce has an Australian accent and I have an American one.  We love it here!

Now.. you need a photo even if it's just a photo of your hand.  Write SexyAds across your hand, take a photo and you'll have a profile pic AND a certified real seal.  :)
Added: Wednesday, April 15, 2009 10:20pm
Thanks for the card
Added: Monday, April 13, 2009 11:16am
Thank You for the card :)
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