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Georgia, USA
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Seeking to restore passion
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Attached male seeking to restore passion in my life; passion might mean a sexual fling, a one-time fling, a strong and lasting friendship, shared interests, or something else entirely. Seeking a similarly minded attached female for a relationship the boundaries of which we decide together.
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The Search to Restore Passion
My journey to recover the passion that is lost in my life.
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Why not just leave?
Thursday, September 1, 2011
The question most often asked of persons who seek an adjunct to a relationship situation is, "why not just leave and start anew with someone else?". In other words, why be a philanderer? The reasons are many, and the facile answer is "it is my business and no one elses".  This answer is a poor one, a passive-aggressive one, and one which fails to address the complexity of the desire to enhance one's situation.

I am still, at the age of 52, vital and interested in passion and intimacy. Lest the reader think that this means I want to get laid, rest assured that it does, but it means a lot more than that. It means that I still have a lot to offer, and that the attributes I have to offer are no longer needed here at home. Has this been discussed? Yes, to a fare-thee-well. Then why not just leave?

The answer is simple: I owe her a lot, and the repayment of a debt is quite important. Debts take many forms, and this begs the further question: do not  owe her my loyalty? This complex question also has a simple answer: yes, to a large extent, but not completely, and not in every way.
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